So … It was a really good weekend. Saturday we were nervous and excited. Everything was packed, 3 bags worth and given it was a UV party we wanted to hopefully look the part.
We got talking to a couple on fab and they were staying in the same hotel as us. We met up for a drink before we went to the club. That was nerve wracking to start with but they were really easy going and lovely and very normal. Chat flowed and we then headed to the club.
Once there we got signed in and got a tour! to be honest at that point I started to relax, it was pretty normal and was a great place. I was worried how my OH felt it looked, these places can look a little tacky sometimes but it was all very tasteful and very very clean and respectful. We settled in to the bar and dance floor and within 30 mins I was down to my boxers, no issues at all. My OH looked amazing in a cut out dress. She started to feel comfortable as well and I got to flash her ass and play with her a bit on the dancefloor etc.
So we continued to socialise with this couple and I can tell you there was all sorts at the club, certainly an eye opener and we would never judge but it’s certainly a good eyeful and pretty intense.
The club has just an excellent vibe, great music and just really chilled. Lovely and clean.
By 10pm we were ready to take the next step with this couple, we asked if they would like to share a room and luckily they said yes. We went to the room and for about 2 mins enjoyed our respective halves before I said shall we swap.
Well after that it’s a bit of a blur but a very good time was had all round. My OH got in to it and enjoyed watching me and I enjoyed what she was up to. Everyone had a great time, really was a step in to a brave new world and we enjoyed it. It was a bit of an interesting room as there were glory holes so people watched or stuck body parts through it but we weren’t interested in that. That was a bit creepy to be honest.
After that mound of debauchery we enjoyed the bar and dance floor and looked about. The couple we were with started going for it in an open area, so we joined them. That was hot and my OH squirted twice on the guy which he really enjoyed. Very hot being watched and just going for it in the open.
Stamina is definitely an interesting thing, you certainly need to pace yourself and alcohol doesn’t help as you naturally drink through the night. We were very thirsty and drank a lot of water and a lot of toilet breaks 
We finished up about 2.30am…we went at 8pm! Walked back to the hotel and had amazing reclaim sex. It was mind blowing. Butt plug in and just enjoyed eachother really passionately.
We’ve talked everything through that happened and had it another two times this morning and tonight talking the memories thru. Really really hot.
We find it really interesting, you get that very slight feeling of jealousy as you see your OH with someone else but then the hornyness takes over whilst you get in to your jam. I really can’t describe it, it’s like not nice but actually really nice!! OH felt exactly the same. She was surprised how early she felt at ease just whipping her dress and thong off and letting a guy just crack on.
My OH enjoyed being centre of attention at one point on the dancefloor between me and the other guy and 3 sets of hands on her when we were in the room. She even had a dip with the other woman but that didn’t really do anything for her.
We are very very secure, over 15 years married and this has only strengthen us more, it’s lovely cuddling today and chilling together and retelling the stories. She got loads of compliments from the couple and even women in the toilet on her legs, bum, boobs, pussy etc! This I think was really positive for her as she is so hot (well she is to me and that’s all that matters)
So, in summary it’s really opened up our relationship to the next level, she’s said today she’s keen to do more… So not sure where this will lead…
There a slight concern for me that we wouldn’t find someone as normal and lovely as the couple we did and going in with them and drink at the hotel etc really calmed things for us. If we went back to the club we wouldn’t necessarily have that safety and the mixing bit is slightly scary. We saw plenty of people just sitting around watching and not doing a lot. There was an eclectic mix of people, not being snooby or judgemental but you know what I mean! So real randoms and for us just normal and chilled is great.
So really, the question is, what next and how do we fulfil it…
I did actually really enjoy the couple thing, although if I’m honest I didn’t see enough of my OH with the other guy as i was busy, but not sure a MMF would be as good. Stuff we will need to think about, maybe it’s go to someone’s house on a meet with a couple possibly… After lots of talking and checking them out etc…
We shall see! Feel free to ask any questions but that’s our journey from Christmas when I brought it up with the other half and didn’t even think she would say yes! So glad she did and so is she!!!
if people continue trying then just report them to the club owner/bar or security!
