Oh yeah, I love that too. The sound of when it pops out her mouth 
then when both are in is awesome! Just wow!
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I think its all relative a grower will attain a certain size and a shower probably doesnt get much bigger.
As long as it works how your happy with thats all that matters porn and society has made us all feel inferior when most really we are all ok as we are.
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A definite grower. When soft itās pretty small and thin. I havenāt measured it but it think about 3 inches but when erect Iām about 6 inches and decent girth. Nothing spectacular but not āsmallā either. I used to think about size all the time when single but thankfully now it doesnāt enter my mind. Always happy to wander around the house naked without feeling embarrassed.
Iām a grower for sure, I sit around 6ā by 5ā around when hard which my Mrs thinks is perfect for her, I want to get a bit thicker so Iāve just invested in a bathmate, Iāve done a thread where I will be posting my progress, I had my first proper play with it today and my OH said it looked bigger already, gonna do measurements every 2 weeks, would be nice to fall into the grower and shower category! I want to get to at least 7āx6ā if I get to that I will be more than happy, if I get even biggerā¦Iāll have to buy the next size up, but hey! Iāll give it a go and see how big it can go!
Yes I have slept with around 15 guys and I would say 12 of them have been growers rather than showers!!!
Iām a grower and always had an insecurity about it from when I was young as someone pulled my pants down and laughed. ( around the age of 12 maybe and it was a cold day) but to be honest when I was late teens early 20ās going out and pulling I never had any issues and women always wanted more from me. But to this day I still hide myself away a bit from the wife when my cock is soft. But she likes putting it in her mouth when soft and likes to watch it grow as she performs a blowjob lol Iāve measured and when hard Iām 6 inches
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Grower or shower? Doesnāt matter, you are who you are!! It doesnāt and shouldnāt define you 
Let free willy be freeā¦
Itās not the size of your fishing rod that matters 
but how you use it and what you catch with it 
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Haha love this, from a definite grower.
Iām a grower. Iād rather be that as then itās a nice surprise
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If he doubles in size heās a lucky man, wish I did lol.
Insecure about penis size, is definitely an issue for a lot of men. I donāt know any man that wouldnāt want to add size, Iām one of them 
I spent years in the army sharing showers with lads, gym showers ect, itās a bit shitty being smaller.
I and a threesome with my mate and a woman, my mate had a big one, he made her moan so much harder than I did which made me kind of feel inadequate.
The Internet doesnāt help either when you have sites with woman discussing the penis size they like but you fall short of that size.
lots of woman say āsize doesnāt matter, its how you use itā
Men long for a larger size, itās definitely a boost in confidence having a big flaccid! when I used my penis pump, it was so much bigger, it felt good it was a confidence boost for me !
All that being said,
My āAdverageā size has never had any complaints (maybe because I always give them an oral orgasm 1st and concentrateon their pleasure over mine?)
As long as you like his size, heās nothing to worry about lol
I can guarantee there will be blokes who read this that wish they had an inch or two more lol
Good thing about us āAdverageā guys over the bigger guys is we donāt need to work it in as much, also we can go as fast, deep and hard without hurting them lol.
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Yes!!
Iāll take Mr Average over Mr Hunglikeadonkey 
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I must be the odd one out then, I have never wanted to be bigger or add a few more inches, I have always been happy with what I have.
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Happy with what iāve got too, why worry about something you canāt change?
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@Cupc8kes totally agree.
Nothing worse than too big. Difficult for all involved when a peg is too big for the hole so to speak.
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Iāve noticed that with mine as well
Ive never wanted an increase in size. Sexually the only thing Iāve wanted was to produce more cum and to shoot it further lol
Iām not HUNG either. More of a grower. I go from almost 4" soft to 6" with a boner. Oh said the same thing - itās how I use it. Slow and good!
Grower here. About 3ā soft to a touch over 6ā hard. Always been super self conscious about size, stopped me doing the things I wanted to when I was young Football, rugby etc because of the locker room situation. Seriously affected my mental health for a good 15 or so years. Still not totally happy now but have learned to cope as well as best I can.
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Iām sure that can be said for most guys to be fair, itās only getting older and seeing more real life penii that makes you realise it doesnāt matter.
Iām a bit smaller than you, 2ā flaccid at normal temp, 5ā when super aroused, and have never had any silly remarks (well to my face !) Maybe just been lucky with the people around me, not sure really.
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Samantha here. Iv been with guys who are both growers and showers. At the end of the day, its pretty useless to me soft haha so who cares.
Ben is probably the biggest grower iv seen. Hes no more than 3 or 4 inches soft but 8ā hard. So I look at him soft and think thatās a normal size but hes bigger than average erect. Guys iv seen that were a good 6ā soft and iv thought wow hes going to be a big boyā¦were just the same hard.
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