Hi folks,
My forum name is quite accurate. I’ve followed this forum for probably 18-24 months, quietly reading in the background. I’m a 40M with my wife for 19years. As is a common theme, since the birth of our son 40 years ago, our levels of intimacy have dried up. I’ve made attempts in the past to discuss, address, improve but nothing was sustainable.
Over the past number of months as a result, I have very much gone to self reflection mode. I have researched, considered my options, sought solutions and unfortunately became bitter. This forum provided such wonderful information, both from those in similar situations, but also from those out the other side - those living their best sex lift. We had a “come to jesus” moment in a very honest / open way and have some way to go, but I’m hopeful. In parallel, and largely as a result of this forum, I’ve opened my mind up to new ideas and have started experimenting.
So thank you! I hope you all know what your post means to those of us reading in silence and seeking solutions.