As I have said in the past the forum has really helped me, I am far more open minded now and I feel I can discuss far more things with folk. I try to be friendly with everyone and supportive to all. I really admire so many people and the lives they lead.
4 Likes
It’s definitely let me know that I’m not the only one with, well, “exotic tastes,” and it’s introduced me to new concepts that I would never have considered otherwise; as well as explaining the psychology behind those concepts in greater detail. So yes, this forum has been extremely helpful and have encountered some awesomely genuine people during my time here (such as @rockstar, @batjamboree, @Green_Eyed_Girl and many others.). It’s been a pleasure that I hope will continue for a long time to come.
6 Likes
@Sexterminator - thank you - it’s a true pleasure talking to you 
1 Like
It has certainly helped me. I am more relaxed and open minded about things and a lot of the toys I have purchased have been because of things I have read on here. I love that you can talk about anything and not be judged too 
4 Likes
The forum has helped me to over come my lack.of knowledge on several topics zmade virtual frinds such as @Wurger @batjamboree just to name a few thank ypu all for your comments and support
2 Likes
It certainly has. I thought I knew quite a lot of things before I came on here, turns out I didn’t
but I’m slowly learning and acquiring lots of new knowledge and so many ideas of things to try. Also the forum allows you to be completely yourself and talk about anything and everything that you aren’t brave enough to say in real life. There are some lovely people on here that always offer great advice too
3 Likes
Hi folks,
My forum name is quite accurate. I’ve followed this forum for probably 18-24 months, quietly reading in the background. I’m a 40M with my wife for 19years. As is a common theme, since the birth of our son 40 years ago, our levels of intimacy have dried up. I’ve made attempts in the past to discuss, address, improve but nothing was sustainable.
Over the past number of months as a result, I have very much gone to self reflection mode. I have researched, considered my options, sought solutions and unfortunately became bitter. This forum provided such wonderful information, both from those in similar situations, but also from those out the other side - those living their best sex lift. We had a “come to jesus” moment in a very honest / open way and have some way to go, but I’m hopeful. In parallel, and largely as a result of this forum, I’ve opened my mind up to new ideas and have started experimenting.
So thank you! I hope you all know what your post means to those of us reading in silence and seeking solutions.
6 Likes
Yes, this forum has helped us both learn. We’ve read about anal sex, butt plugs and what makes people cum good! We’ve tried a couple positions that were fun and settled on two or three. I’ve learned how to make her cum during oral better. Lovehoney is the best!
I have posted before about how valuable I think that the forum is so I may end up repeating myself and the points that others have made. Hopefully though the points are worth making.
Firstly, I enjoy reading about the variety of ways people enjoy their sex lives. Some of it isn’t for me and a fair amount, where couples are involved, is not particularly relevant as I live on my own. Nevertheless hearing about the different ways everyone gets their pleasure confirms to me how valuable an active sex life can be for general wellbeing and that it’s ok that we all have different ways of doing so.
Secondly, the forum has motivated and encouraged me to embrace the things that I am interested in and that I enjoy. Two things in particular. I have begun to explore female lingerie, which I am finding very exciting, and to indulge in some self spanking. After all, I believe that it’s important to enjoy life as much as possible while we can and so the forum has stimulated me into not denying whatever gives me pleasure.
This brings me on to my third point which is how good it is to be open about what I enjoy rather than keeping it completely secret. As with most here, I don’t talk about such things in my everyday life so having this space to do so is very liberating. I find it very stimulating to discuss the pleasure I get in various ways and it makes me appreciate how important that is.
2 Likes
The forum has been a big help. From making you feel normal with thoughts on sex and fantasies to learning new things like positions and techniques. Gives you confidence to explore new things and encourages open communication with OH on all things intimate. Made a huge difference to our sex lives and well being in general. Thanks to the community for your help and support.
3 Likes
Plenty! We got anal help - lots of anal help. Toys. We got advice about using them, cleaning them too. Positions as well. Nothing crazy, just ideas that were fun to try. We both read the forums
1 Like