My long-term partner has just found a stash of porn that I downloaded on my laptop! Like many hot blooded males, I enjoy watching the odd bit of action know and then, but my girl is from quite a conservative and didn't have any prior idea about this. Beside regular porn, I also have some pretty hardcore stuff like gangbangs and bukkake scenes. Anyway, she's absoultely horrified by it and left my a message calling me disgusting and said I make her sick!
I'm away at the moment and am dreading facing her tonight and was wondering best to explain it. I don't want to lose the relationship but don't think she will accept my honest answer for it. She has a lower drive than me and I have greater urges. Also during her time of the month, she's out of action for about a week, that's mainly where downloads come in. She refuses anything sexual during this time, so no oral or handjob or anything for me. Rather than going looking for other women, I might just watch the odd video instead. Is that really so bad?
What would you guys do in this situation? Can anyone think of a plausible excuse I might use to try and get of this mess?