I wanted to get my H a male stroker, I ordered him the LH reversible intense stroker and when it came he / we struggled to get it on him. Once we got it part way on he said it wasn’t pleasurable and was more painful and making his cock go slightly numb. When we removed it his head was purple and the little ‘spikes’ had temporarily marked him. I went on to the customer service chat and the lovely lady I spoke to suggested the xl - I was worried that the circumference was still the same but she said it should be more than suitable given his size that we gave her. It came and again pain, and no pleasant feelings whatsoever - it was also a nightmare getting it on him. In the end I decided to got for the BlowYo Extreme Waves, now while this was easier to get on his cock he said he felt nothing at all sensation wise. He actually asked me if there was a texture inside 🙈.
Is he just not suited to strokers? Or is there something that may work for him?
I'm also 'above average' and fit the XL quite nicely. That said, a fleshlight is FAR more pleasurable and reaslistic (and dearer).
So maybe a different aproach is needed. What about something like this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34745&reviewpage=1#customer_reviews
Its shorter so will not envelop his whole penis but it's clear so you can watch the fun, and it's great enough to allow stimulation of the shaft while you give him oral sex. It might be the way ahead.
One thing you didn’t mention in your post... are you using a good amount of lube with these strokers?
I was also thinking about lube too, it really does help to make the whole experience so much more pleasurable. I have also found Lovehoneys link which has a number of guides, and also a male masturbator finder which could be useful :) x
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/buyers-guide/
Thank you for the replies. Yeah we were using lots of lube - I also struggled at one point to ‘stretch’ it because it was slippery lol
Thanks for the links will take a look xx
Have you tried the blow yo strokers? These are great little toys and super discreet:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/brands/blowyo/
I’m slightly larger in girth than average and they stretch quite well around my member, it also leaves the tip free for teasing 🙌🏻
Alternatively I would suggest a THRUST stroker or flashlight as these are super realistic and the material stretches easily no matter what size you are ☺️