I’m afraid I don’t have sea very often at all
…. However when I do, it is NEVER average 
R xx
Ha 
What a funny post 
@Dirty-Wife trains hard and is on the pitch a lot.
@rockstar plays hard too!
My team doesn’t play that often, but when we do, it’s World Cup championship level 
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Now that we are older I would say on average 2 times a week. Some weeks a little more, definitely a lot of masturbation thrown in there.
Finally compiled my year-end stats to provide some solid analysis! Some preamble:
- Sexual encounters defined for 2022 as in-person, shared experiences involving the existence of one or more orgasms OR penetration.
- I did not include in these numbers phone/video sex while one of us traveled,
- nor did I make any attempt to log solo masturbation.
- Margin of error should be allowed: I used a tally system rather than tracking specific dates/times, so determining if I missed a day was based on the timestamp of my last edit in docs.
- “Specials” indicates encounters resulting in specific notes. Primarily made up of deviations from routine bedtime sex, including extended romps, quickies, inclusion of new or multiple toys, or oral sex. This does NOT mean that everything not counted as “special” was routine, though.
Graph
Total sexual encounters: 336
His (my) orgasms: 322
Her (wifey) orgasms: 306
Specials: 84
Monthly Average Encounters: 28.00
Monthly Average His Orgasms: 26.83
Monthly Average Her Orgasms: 25.50
Monthly Average Specials: 7.00
Weekly Average Encounters: 6.46
Weekly Average His Orgasms: 6.19
Weekly Average Her Orgasms: 5.88
Weekly Average Specials: 1.62
Peak Month: May (37 encounters, 35 His, 28 Her, 7 Specials)
Low Month: October (19 encounters, 19 His, 17 Hers, 5 Specials)
Peak Specials: March & December (9)
And some postamble:
- Peak month: In May we went away the two of us for the first time since becoming parents in 2015. We did all the things, multiple times a day. Our first time after settling into the resort wifey begged me for anal with a dildo vaginally in her Womanizer clitorally. We averaged 3/day for our 5 night stay and concluded with a blowjob in the back of the stretch Hummer that took us back to the airport (I didn’t cum, but it counts, right?). That entire week was noted as just ONE special in the notes.
- Low Month: Wife had to travel for work in June for two weeks, so I thought that would be our lowest month. But I forgot we were on a family trip with the in-laws for a full week in October, plus wife had three different work trips (shorter, but still disruptive) and I had a boatload of commitments that killed our weekends.
- The orgasm gap: Wifey surpassed me in orgasms in 3 months (January, March, and September) and we were equal in June. She’s a one-and-done, usually, and regularly invites me in for a quick go at bedtime even if she’s not interested. If it were up to me, I’d go down on her every day with repeat performances, but that’s not her preference.
- Here is a word cloud of my Specials notes. Top words were Oral (26), Afternoon (23) and Bedtime (23), Cowgirl (22), Quickie (16), Melt (14) and Doggy (14), Womanizer (8), Morning (7), Blowjob (6) and Dildo (6)
- For 2023 I’ve modified a spreadsheet used to track workouts and hope to get a wider range of statistics, including tracking what type of encounter (including virtual/remote), primary and secondary positions, and any enhancements (including oral, anal, bondage, toys, and roleplay) as well as a notes section for additional clarification. Biggest question for me right now is whether or not Oral should be classified as a primary type of encounter or a primary position. Right now I have it as a position, as it sometimes occurs at bedtime, sometimes in a quickie, and frequently as part of an extended, intentional romp.
How’d I do? What more information would you try to track over a year?
(I don’t want to lose the draft, so I’ll edit with links to my charts and graphs once they’re approved)
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This is gold 
hats off to you you two!
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Probably not even included in a league. A few times a year. We are always completely exhausted, I have chronic illnesses and we have two small children. We get one night away each year for our wedding anniversary which is mostly as much sex as we can manage in 24 hours to keep us going till the next year
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Good job!!!
That’s some work you put into that! Well done 
I like the addition of the notes for 2023, what about a few things that you’d like to try as a goal for 2023.
Oral to me is a primary encounter and I think because you’ve questioned whether you should stick to what it was for 2022 or change it, means you don’t think ‘position’ is the right listing for it.
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Following our New Year resolutions she has at least one orgasm every day. I have some form of sexual teasing every day and we have full blown sex of some sort 2 or 3 times each week.
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Hey. It’s usually at least once a week, if hubby has been a good boy and serviced me I’ll allow him a few moments of pleasure 
I have a new connection though with his recently divorced friend, we had our first date last weekend. Just a social date, food and drinks…all with my husbands blessing. I may be getting more sex soon xxx
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Impressive @LRLRL I’m encouraged by the sexual data in the family structure alluded to. Your logging system is pretty sick too
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Not often enough at the moment
That sounds like it could be a lot of fun, @Funcouple1980s. Husband happy for you to do this as well. That is certainly a bonus. Does husband want to be there / watch. It sounds like we need to watch this space for updates as things progress.
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Hubby would like to watch yes. Not the entire night (if his friend stays over) I think I’d enjoy hubby watching for a while then being alone with his friend. I’d be more relaxed and not worrying if I was doing something that could possibly upset my husband. We have discussed about how far we want to explore the cuckold thing. What is he willing to do etc. xxx
Ps I have another date lined up with him this weekend. Just arranging the kids to stay over xxx
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It all sounds very exciting. I can understand you not wanting husband to watch all night, how do the 3 of you feel about hubby joining in ( spit roast rather than hubby playing with friend) . Can hubby play away as well? You must have a very good marriage. 
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I can’t even make the reserve team in Sunday league at the minute
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Hey. We’ve discussed hubby possibly joining in at some point, hubby has reiterated his desire to watch me getting pleasure and then him leaving us alone. He knows I feel comfortable around his friend after knowing him for nearly 20 years. I’m not against hubby joining in, I’d enjoy having two horny guys at my mercy but his fantasy is for me to cuckold him and that’s what I’m going to do xxx
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Date night went well…very well 
xxx
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Did hubby leave you to it or join? Has he ‘reclaimed’ you yet? Sounds like you had fun!
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Without going into too much detail, hubby watched until he was politely asked to leave 
then we spent the night alone in my bedroom me and his friend. Hubby doesn’t reclaim me…he cleans me xxx
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