One of the best things that often works for PE is cumming before sex. Most men will last longer the 2nd time... but you don't always feel like it afterwrds and some men take longer to get hard again than others.
Good luck!
ummm , ok. Sometimes he can take a little while and to be fair I find size varies - is that "normal " too ?
Don't be worried about being 'abnormal'! Sex is different for everyone.
I don't mean size I mean that if I cum then have sex again it takes me longer to cum the 2nd time. 'Getting it out of his system' might be an option before having 'proper sex'.
This has been going on for a 'few years'..??!! Wow. Must admire your patience with him! ;)
Does it happen mostly in one position?
Cos I did have this experience once many years back, while being ridden by a lady with really firm breasts. As soon as I felt them I was 'lost'!! ;)
So it may be that you have to try different positions that will vary his amount of excitement - till he can learn to control it better.
I usually ( have to say 'used to' at my age!! ) find that by the second or third session in the day I could last for hours. So maybe you just have to make him feel okay about shooting off and try again when his system has reloaded. ;)
All the best with it. And again - I commend you for your patience with him. ;)
This has been going on for a 'few years'..??!! Wow. Must admire your patience with him! ;)
Does it happen mostly in one position?
Cos I did have this experience once many years back, while being ridden by a lady with really firm breasts. As soon as I felt them I was 'lost'!! ;)
So it may be that you have to try different positions that will vary his amount of excitement - till he can learn to control it better.
I usually ( have to say 'used to' at my age!! ) find that by the second or third session in the day I could last for hours. So maybe you just have to make him feel okay about shooting off and try again when his system has reloaded. ;)
All the best with it. And again - I commend you for your patience with him. ;)
Hiya,
Thanks for your reply.
What can I say ? I am a patient lady ! Lol ....
TBH there is a long story behinde how my OH & I met and got together , but that's for another time ! Let's just say I waited a long time and apart from this hiccup, I am the happiest I have ever been in a relationship , hence forth why I am patient with this issue.
TBH our positions are limited due to size issues ....
But the prem-ejaculation does happen in most positions we do External Media Due to busy lives , 2nd times are rare as we dont have the energy lol
Well , to the point - sometimes my man "Comes" without any build up / climax / orgasm . He isn't aware it is going to happen and then it shocks him as much as it does me when he realises that he has.
I've not had that many partners and TBH as much as I love my man, he isn't that fantastic in the bedroom ( Although we are working together to try and change this. Anyway, thats another issue. ) None of my ex's have ever had this happen and I am not sure if it is "Normal" ? As far as I was aware from past experiance, men do build up and climax just as much as women.