Interracial Relationships

Interesting. I did a search on interracial and all the results came back as porn related. I get it to a certain point. There is a fantasy to experience black, Asian, Latino, or whatever if it’s different than your own skin or body type. That being said, my wife and I are very white but our step daughter and our granddaughter are very black. It makes no difference to who the people are. They are still family. Would I like to hook up an Asian lady? Yep, but no more than any other ethnicity. White, black, brown… I’m in if on the same page.

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I never really thought much about it. Before I experienced a real relationship, I wanted just about any kind of cute girl who might love me. I’ve ended up in a multicultural family, which can be sexually interesting. My heritage is Greek, so I’m on the “pale” end of the Mediterranean look. My GF is Russian, and blonde. Like…“OMG you’re such a WHITE girl” kind of pale. Two of my partners are Hispanic, but somewhat different from each other due to different national origins. Another partner is Vietnamese. I’m attracted to each of them, and for different reasons. Appearance-wise, GF fit my “dream-girl fantasy” the most. Blonde, big breasts, curvy… the rest of my partners are rather flat-chested.

I guess some people have a race/culture fetish, but I really don’t. The city where I grew up is very multicultural, so I guess having a multicultural family never seemed odd. We have 7 different languages in our home…we all speak English, and different partners have different second languages. It makes arguments interesting… :roll_eyes: I DO enjoy the food that we have in our family. Lots of different recipes and traditions, so holidays are like a crazy buffet! :grin:

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Personally i don’t think race matters, if you are attracted to someone.

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Just a reminder of the forum rules for future thread participants :slight_smile:

Do not single out minority groups (including races, ethnicities, sexualities or gender identities) as arousing you or being part of your fantasy. Real life is not like pornography and real people deserve more respect than being reduced to fantasy fulfilment

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I’ve been in same race and interracial relationships, and I’ve concluded that I just love women.

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@WillC agreed completely!!!

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I really enjoy interracial porn, black on white. Hubby loves it too, just something really intense and hot about it

The point of this thread being?

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Great post @awkward-yet-sweet and some great points. Wow, what a diverse relationship status. My long term wife came with an interracial family. I came from a white privileged family so it really opened my eyes to real life. We have been challenged in stores as having “the wrong type” with us and at airport security claiming it can’t possibly be our granddaughter. I hate to see websites or adult stores catering to certain “looks” rather than interests. I just find the diversity of us all to be really of interest. Might be looks, might be religion, might be relationship status. All good and all different.

@Lovehoney_Brenna I understand the warning but that is what I hoping to drill past. If the topic fails, just close it down.

Honestly (not to go off into politics), but I question the “white privilege” idea. To me, it seems a bit wrong to classify people just by race. For example, German people and Greek people are both supposedly “white” but have very different culture and demeanor. A girl from Mexico and a girl from Argentina are both Hispanic, but again…different culture, and they even speak a slightly different sort of Spanish. And who is “on top” in any racial/cultural pecking order is going to vary significantly based on location. And there are multicultural areas like where I live, where people are so used to each other that being white or black or brown isn’t as important as other things like faith or politics. Maybe its different than other parts of the USA, but seeing couples of different ethnicities and diverse families isn’t unusual.

One thing that does get noticed, however, is family size and structure. There’s still a bit of bias on that. Since my family is large and I have multiple partners, we get stared at a bit. Especially if we’re being affectionate with each other, people can’t quite wrap their brains around a committed, faithful, multi-partner relationship.

Hmmm… White privilege. A topic that makes me feel guilty all the time. I grew up in an upper end military family. Everyone had the same sexuality, same skin colour, more or less same religion (Catholic versus Protestant). I was never judged walking into a store or airport. I learned a lot from current family.