Yeah, I still need a lot of solo play because my drive is higher than his 
What did he think of the cock ring he used? My husband was scared of the one with the ball sleeve too, but now he loves it (this was his review of it). Good idea with the list (we’re going to do that soon with role-play ideas because he keeps shooting me down) 
You should check out the sexual happiness podcast if you haven’t already, there are episodes about different types of toys (vibrators, cock rings and other male toys, remote control toys, anal toys), about bondage and sexual fantasies, good talking points or you can let him overhear parts of episodes that have parts you want him to hear 
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