I've gone through a few pages on the site but I hadn't spotted a thread that answered this question specifically. I'm looking for something to use purely during sex on my parteners clit. She used to have a really good one shapped like an elephant head but she lost it years ago and subsecrent replacements since haven't been as good. There seem to be dozens on this site all highly recomended so I'm struggling to decide as such any suggestions are appreicated.
If its any help she usually prefers soft jelly like ones to rather then hard. Thanks again.
How do you have an orgasm with a vibe on your clit?? I have only achieved this a couple of times as I find it a bit too much for me to take. Only fingers or tongues seem to work on my clit. Do you pass the vibe over your clit so that the vibrations aren't constant??
Noooo, constant vibes are the way to go for me!! I second Crayola's recommendation of a vibrating cock ring... I used to have the Omazing one, and I loved it. Here's my review if you're interested!
forgot to add because it on a controller it means you dont need your hand shoved in the way either, you can control it from the side of you, adjustable sppeds too, WooHoo
I also recommend the tonguejoy which can be used as a cock ring and for other things (it's the only applicable one I've had experience of so can't say more than that). http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=396
I like the look of that butterfly, SC... your review has persuaded me to add it to my wishlist! I like the way it straps on as well, because for me, a hand in between my body and his is not an option - my tummy gets in the way, lol :)
when worn during sex its amazing and its really soft too,
This is on my wishlist. I too find my clit can not handle direct stimulation during sex so it needs to be just above or to the side. In the general area does it for me.
Have you considered the We-Vibe? It is insertable so that it rests and vibrates on the clit during sex but also vibrates inside the vagina so both partners get pleasure from it: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14504
I can vouch for the TC bullet vibe too - it's the best all in one compact bullet I've ever came across ... or all over it as the case may be! Normally hard little vibes don't do it for me but that one is special!
I think i'm going to have to try the butterfly! Haven't orgasmed through penetrative before so good to know something like this exists to tip me over the edge!! Always so close but yet so far!