Masturbating in front of friends

Total agree , and all normal at boarding school

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Yeah it’s normal if you have the sort of friends where you are all comfortable with each other. I remember doing it when I was younger we were all close good friends.

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Doesnt. Matter if normal or not.!! If you are both cool with it, whats the issue.

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i haven’t gotten the opportunity but did know someone who did it at the same time as their roommates during a “masturbation hour”

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Ask yourself what is normal?
Sex & sexuality are whatever you feel comfortable doing with whoever and whenever you feel like it within your own boundaries. Normal for one person might be weird or tame to another. Enjoy your own body, whenever you like.

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If you mean by ‘normal’ do a lot of friends do it, then my guess would be not many, although perhaps more than you’d think?? Dunno. But if you’re both comfortable with it and you have a great bond of trust between you, then why not?

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Some great responses guys thank you!

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Do you do it on a regular basis @jess42

Not done yet but I think I could do with the right friend. :wink:

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I went to an all boys catholic school and we would do the milk race - generally 6-8 would masterbate frantically infront if each other - the last to cum would eat the cum covered biscuit

I never lost

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It’s not something I do regularly at all but I have masturbated when a female friend who I’ve known since teenage years has been around before. We have talked about vibrators, masturbation and sex topics in general so are pretty open with each other. There have been a couple of girls holidays where one of us needs to masturbate at some point and do it quietly under the bed covers or in the bathroom.

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@AWB1955 not that often

Sounds super cool tho I may see if a good friendvwoukd like to try it not sure how to approach her @jess42

I think i have been unintentionally sexually biased.
If a male friend wanted to masterbate in front of me, i would not be happy with that.
Cant imagine growing up with a friend and that just being the normal thing either.
So i hold my hands up and admit to accepting double standards.
Being part of a M/F sexal group having fun would be different.
I accept i may be be criticised on this point.

I think thats my point, but this may be described as a shallow male attitude. :person_shrugging:

The couple that we swing with, we have been known to be just chatting about things while casually wanking ourselves. Gets us ready for things to come later on.

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Not explicitly masturbating in front of each other.
But me and my friends would watch porn together and take turns excusing ourselves to the bedroom,
and on more than one occasion, someone would be taking a long time in the bedroom, so we would just put our hand down under our pants and take care of things right there.
But never whip it out for all to see.
thinking back if one of us asked, “Do you mind if I just do it here?”
I don’t think anyone would have had a problem with it.

If you’re comfortable then great. I’ve been been embarrassed masturbating fortunately.

Been meaning to share this. Last week me and a friend of mine had plans to meet for lunch. I was to meet him at his office, which he runs a non profit and has his own private office with a small reception area and then his office which is enclosed. When I arrived he was in his office and since he was expecting me I gave a quick knock on the door and walked in. There he was stark naked watching porn on his computer and whacking off. I excused myself and turned around. A few minutes later he came out apologizing and we headed off to lunch. He told me he gets no action from home any longer and usually will masturbate at the office since he is alone. Told him no apology necessary but he then said if I ever wanted privacy to masturbate I could come by his office.

Since then, I have been thinking about that, not so much because I get no sex, but aroused thinking about watching him. I doubt I will act on it as only a fantasy and prefer women.

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Thanks for sharing this, it’s so refreshing to hear how open minded and able to not feel embarrassed with each other you both are. I think I would be very tempted to at least try if I was in your position :thinking:

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