Masturbating in front of friends

Interested to know if this is just be and my best friend or not :joy: we’ve known each other all our lives so are very close. We often go away together as our families are close and when sharing rooms will masturbate in front of each other.

She will be doing her make up in the mirror and I’ll be casually rubbing one out behind her is this normal :joy:

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I don’t know about ‘normal’ but it sounds wonderful to be so relaxed and uninhibited around each other.

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Love the thought of it @jess42 but not something I ever really did on a lads holiday. Maybe it is normal who knows but as long as your comfortable and your bestie is too then crack on.
:grin:

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I don’t know if its normal but it is red hot for sure. edited by mod :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: @jess42

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Not normal for me :rofl:, but each to their own. If it works for you and her, great, carry on.

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Define ‘normal’ :joy: if you two are fine with rubbing one out I front of each other then it’s perfectly normal :joy: if other people decide to do it the why not? I’m pretty sure half of the things I like would certainly not be signed as normal in some peoples eyes :joy:

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Don’t worry about “normal.” Life is too short to worry about things that don’t impact others. As long as you’re both consenting, enjoy yourselves!

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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it if you both are happy and enjoy it​:wink:

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Nothing wrong in masterbating in front of each other as long as your both comfortable with it

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I have talked about masturbating with my closest friends but I have never masturbated with them. If you are watching each other I would think that might mean you have a sexual connection with each other (rather than platonic) but I can also imagine that masturbating together where the focus is not on watching each other (and it is just something you both need to do) could very much be what close friends might do, just as long as the boundaries are clear! :grinning:

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The only time I have masterbated is infront on my husband or my previous girlfriend

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Partners? Yes.
Strangers? Yes (with their consent).
A mirror? Yes.
Pets? Probably accidentally.
Friends? Only those with benefits.

I wouldn’t say normal, but I wouldn’t be mad at it.

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Not normal but if you are comfortable why not.

Me and my friend when we were growing up did a milk race, but only the once. In case you don’t know a milk race is males masturbating until the first one comes.

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Seems perfectly fine to me. I’ve done so in a number of scenarios before.

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Ha ha I used to play the milk race game with a couple of palls in my early teens. Makes me laugh thinking about it. I don’t think it would go down well suggesting it with my current friends. I will stick to wanking with the Mrs.

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I don’t think my friends would interesting in me knocking one out, I could ask them next time I see them? I have a feeling I know the answer . But enjoy what you and friends do well done :+1:

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I’ve not done this and wouldn’t be interested in doing it, but a lot of what I do wouldn’t be classed as ‘normal’, so I’m certainly not the authority on it.

For me, it’s sexual, and if you’re watching each other, then there’s a sexual energy, and there’s nothing abnormal about that. Do what you like and don’t worry about what anyone else thinks.

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In the past I’ve had a few friends like that, both male and female…
sometimes just because we felt relaxed together, sometimes almost teasing each other…
Pride, in that which god gave me, definitely played a part in my confidence to do it, especially with my male friends…

I also had a fairly long-term partner that started as a friend, and became more after masturbating together. We did it quite a few times, watching porn, before actually getting together… over a year or so…

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@jess42 that kind of honest openness is refreshing. I do that with my OH.

you are normal and you sound like an absolute blast to party with :wink:

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Pretty normal. My sister and I have rubbed off, shared toys, and had sex around each other for years. We even share a girlfriend, so our bodies just aren’t a big deal.

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