I have been on and off wearing my OH underwear but with her being that much bigger than me it takes a while to find anything that remotely fits, she has occasionally given me some to wear but they were too big, some others were a older ones of hers that kinda fit but not enough to wear all day or often.
I have never had the confidence to buy any of my own but speaking with a friend about it they have given me the kick to buy a set of my own, which will hopefully be with me soon and I will 1, see if the sizing is correct and 2, if I like wearing them on an all day basis. Sure I will but never been 100% sure, will admit it has made me rather excited to give it a go.
Hi @mightymike
Thanks for opening up about your lingerie wearing exploits and how you can take it to the next stage. It would appear that you have a very supportive OH by the way they share & gift their pants to you - what a dream scenario for some of us .
The many posts by both male & female forum members in response to my own journey of wearing lingerie and how I can take my desires to the level, have been so wonderfully supportive, compassionate and informative. They have ALL helped me overcome my self doubt, nervousness at speaking to my OH, actually wearing my own lingerie and not hers and for building my confidence and self esteem in overcoming my growing fears.
The biggest help to me was hearing of others journeys etc and how what I thought was my unique experience was far from the truth, there are many many lingerie wearing males here, some with supportive OH’s and others not so much.
So please do share your journey & experiences and reach out if you need help & advice. I did, and my suffering mental health and anxiety has all but disappeared with my growing confidence of wearing my very own lingerie all day every day. Now I have to buy more lingerie…
Thanks @Mid-50s_kiwi for the supportive message, I have read some of your posts about this subject and seeing the support that you got given gave me the confidence to open up on here.
Before looking on this forum and seeing how many people are in or have been in the same situation is kind of comforting and helps in so many different ways.
Pretty sure that I will be in the same boat soon enough, may need to clear a section of one of my drawers out
@mightymike@Mid-50s_kiwi
In the space of about 6 months, I’ve gone from owning non of my own to a drawer full of women’s panties that are mine today’s red silk thong is just one of many.
Beware, you won’t be able to stop!
Well it has kinda started already, I have gotten a bluie green lace thong from a close friend that I am wearing today. They are the first pair that I have worn that fit nicely so has given me a very good starting point. They are so comfortable that I can see why a lot of men do wear them. Hopefully will be able to get some more of my own soon.
Hey @Flutterbye400
You’re OH is oh so lucky to have such a supportive partner wanting to share this wonderful world of lingerie wearing with him, he just doesn’t know it yet
I would suggest take it slow and maybe start to introduce the idea to him as part of your bedroom play. You could wear nice lingerie and suggest that he maybe tries on a pair of your pants, or do a swap night where you wear his and he yours? Something fun & exciting to break the ice anyway maybe?
This past week I’ve been reading an ebook called “Put him in Panties” put him in panties: Contents written from the female authors perspective. (This is a USA book so it uses the term Panties - sorry for using this term in a UK based forum) I found the first 3 chapters and conclusion really useful from my viewpoint. My OH isn’t that supportive of me wearing my pants so a lot of this book isn’t relevant nor the chapters about the submissive nature but have a read and see if it helps?
On sizing my OH is also a 12 and the bikini style she wears are a little small on me so would suggest going up a size if buying lingerie for him. I’ve also found the hip hugger style of lingerie better fitting for me as theres more at the front to accommodate the male anatomy and are super comfortable for everyday all-day wear.
Ha ha you should probably not choose to tie him up quite yet but you never know he might just enjoy that too one day
I’ve discovered this forum and it’s incredible members wonderfully supportive and a safe place to share experiences and advice so I’m pleased you found my post helpful. There are lots of posts on this very subject plus a few with links to more advice for males wanting to try lingerie wearing. Let me know if you would like to read these and I’ll reshare the posts with you.
Good Luck - what a lucky husband you have I envy him
Hey @Flutterbye400
Fantastic to hear you were able pluck up the courage to suggest wearing your knicks and your play time went well. Really pleased that your OH found out for himself what the wonderful world of lingerie wearing has to offer.
I hope this is the start of a new journey for you both
Mid 50’s kiwi + 5
Hey @Flutterbye400
Wearing female pants of my own have an unusually positive affect on me and maybe other males as well?
When I wear them as my normal day to day underwear I am semi aroused most of the time. I call them “My Happy Pants” because that’s how I feel when wearing them.
@Flutterbye400 it is a good start even if it is occasional as that can quite easily lead to more if you are both really enjoying it! Also I am not sure how far you can go on here about what you get up to as I am new here myself, but reading some threads it is quite a lot
I’m wondering @Flutterbye400 what your OHs reaction was when you suggested he wear your knicks? And whether he is keen to wear his own at some point in the near future given you have seen him showing interest in your pants?
After months of telling my gf about this side of me and expecting / willing her to research and ask questions (which she didn’t really do). I finally plucked the courage to just wear them in front of her and showed her on the sofa, under my joggers.
She was intrigued and even asked me to show them off to her by taking my joggers off.
It was a massive step and she said she’s glad I did it as she was basically waiting for me to take the first step. I feel a bit better, although I would still love her to ask me questions and show her, but definitely a good step in the right direction.
Going to do it again when she gets back from work today!
@Flutterbye400 so you did tie him down sounds a most excellent evening.
Well done for doing something positive for the two of you and feeling confident enough to approach this subject with your OH after your earlier forum posts. I hope the replies helped you
I consider men wearing lingerie should be considered as a norm and while it’s not for all men - I enjoy both buying lingerie for my husband and him wearing it - he has a great collection- some is more sissy pink others is white and innocent and some in purple or blue or any colour- my only thing is I don’t want him wearing black lingerie (apart from stockings) - it’s just a me thing
Buying presents for men is difficult but being s lingerie wearer makes it a lot easier
Never hide it away from your partner- be confident enough- although in a new relationship take it slowly
Hey @batjamboree
I have to applaud you for your supportive words and caring sharing actions, your OH is oh so lucky to have you and your open attitude towards men wearing lingerie
I wish you could bottle some of this for me so I could sprinkle a little of this sharing & buying lingerie for your OH attitude over my OH. I live in hope that maybe one day this will happen
You are so kind - in the past I have helped a number of men shop for their own lingerie as sometimes men can get it wrong - but I just see nothing wrong with it
Managed to go out with my friend on Saturday and we bought a pack of thongs and Brazilian style pants for me and put a thong straight on on Saturday and wearing the very comfy Brazilian one today. They feel so nice I can stop stroking them
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today’s red silk thong is just one of many.
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and please share your journey.
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