I must say, I opened it and admired it and was sceptical, the hole looked so small. Obviously I needed a small amount of experimentation at the time, so I attempted to enter it without lube, to no avail. But with a bit of lube I was quickly getting carried away with it, it felt fantastic. I had to force myself to put it down.
Now I just can't wait to use it properly. I'm excitable about new toys, and this one definately silenced all my scepticism as soon as I entered it.
I masturbate infrequently so it probably won't get a massive work out that often, but I'm happy that I brought something that feels more realistic too. A lot of the time when I masturbate it's because I haven't had sex for a few days and, well, masturbation never really cuts it. Climax from masturbation is never nearly as exhilirating, amazing or draining as climaxing with my OH during sexual activities. So now I'm glad I've purchased something that may at least be a go between, better than my hand but still not as good as the real thing.
I'm hoping I get chance tonight. I look forward to giving the toy a thorough work out and reviewing it.
One of my pet peeves is getting a LH parcel through the door and not getting a chance to test things out immediately, i'm definitely lacking in the patience department (thankfully this doesn't happen to me often)!
Well there has been a minor set back in proceedings. A change of plans for the evening, or even an unexpected turn led to events that will result in the toy not being tested tonight.
The real thing always tops a toy, always.
After a discussion with the OH as well it has been revealed that she was secretly hoping that I wouldn't like the feel of the Thrust and now has some hang ups about it. Thinking about it this is to be understood. I can understand how she could interpret it as being that I want to use a vagina but without her, or without the rest of her body added. Maybe I want to masturbate more so brought something to do it with or maybe I'm not happy with our sex life.
None of these things are true of course but I can see how that may be her way of thinking and therefore why it may impact her.
After some discussion she revealed its the vagina form that worries her most, and that she's fine with a masturbator sleeve.
Basically we've agreed that I will test run the Thrust - enough to write a review don't worry - and then, if i like it, may look into buying a sleeve instead of using the Thrust. However, it is known that the Thrust may also come out every once in a while. I'm happy with this.
I concur and repeat, nothing beats the real thing, and it's a little nice for my OH to want to assert her sexual side on me as reassurance that real is better. It was unexpected.
I have ooooh lets say over 50 sex toys and no matter how powerful, how big, how realistic or how amazing a toy is, nothing beats the warmth and softness of a partners touch. I think because I flt that way, I assumed my (male) partner did too and I was the one who bought him his toys. He concurs, as great as they all feel, he wouldnt trade me in anytime soon. (Just as well really eh lol)
J, that sound great!! Is she into some toys herself?
I can highly reccomend the Tenga eggs, they aren't supposed to be reusable, but I've found with a good clean with LH toy cleaner they can be used again. I used this on my OH and he loved it, and it's probably the best toy you can get for looking least like a vagina as possible! Haha!
J, that sound great!! Is she into some toys herself?
I can highly reccomend the Tenga eggs, they aren't supposed to be reusable, but I've found with a good clean with LH toy cleaner they can be used again. I used this on my OH and he loved it, and it's probably the best toy you can get for looking least like a vagina as possible! Haha!
Yeah she is, we have a decent collection of toys that have always been for use on her up until the last week or so.
Silently Kinky wrote:
maybe you just need to talk to her about it a bit more and show her how it affects you?
Don't quite understand what you mean by showing her how it affects me, but I have no problem with talking about it more. We have been discussing toys more and more lately, especially regarding another, rather large, LH purchase. Maybe I'm guilty of avoiding talking about it? I'll have to change that and bring it up ( so to speak ;) ).
I have the Fleshlight STU - nothing at all like the real thing. I'll always remember the quote from the film Zack and Miri make a porno..... "it's just like fucking a plastic pussy". It was my thoughts exactly. It's hardly seen the light of day (or energy savng light bulb at night)
However, they perform a function as a variation to manual stimulation, invaluable if you don't currently have a partner.
It has a closure at the end with a little hole so you can put your finger over it and increase the suction. The material used is so so soft, it's really lovely to feel and I loved using it on my OH. I got it in this starter pack...
But I've noticed they've changed the type of stroker that comes with it now.
A pack might be a good option though, there's toys in there for the both of you, and it's more subtle than specifically buying a stroker which might make her think too much into things. If it comes in a set, then it's more pleasing for you both.
I haven't tried this set, but it's the step up from the one I listed above. It's very new to LH and wasn't available when I bought the set above, but if it was I definitely would have opted for this one instead...
The stroker has brilliant reviews, and the cock ring looks better and is reusable, unlike in the other pack where you got two disposable rings. The little vibrator looks much better too!
