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@Happilymarriedman84 ā¦so did the pegging ever happen ???
No unfortunately it hasnāt happened and she hasnāt really played with me like that for a while due to illness but now sheās better we will start getting back on track. I donāt actually think she will properly get into pegging me as she thinks itās a little far.
@Happilymarriedman84
Keep trying- Iām sure she will give it a go soon
A Hetero friend was really into pegging with his gf, he was very curious about trying the āreal dealā so he talked about it a lot, one day he and his gf asked me (since iām their only gay friend) But he was extremely afraid to be put off looking at a guy, so what we decided to do was to do it doggy style with his gf under him and his penis inside her. He came fast, i mean reeeeeally fast, it was amazing!
I think this is an example of a lot of men are cock curious, and not bi curious or gay. Those are fine too however I think a lot of men just want to know what a cock feels like in their mouth or in their ass. Or they are turned on by the cock itself but not by the rest of the male form. So your friend not looking at you and looking at his gf solved that issue.
In my opinion, you are exactly bang on @Pogo69 . I have no interest in a relationship with a male but no hang ups with playing.
When you play are you only receiving? Are you only focused on their cock or the rest of their body?
Itās funny to read that because I get it from a completely different side, Iām a gay male I love everything about a male body, I have zero interest in having a relationship with a woman, but I wouldnāt refuse to eat a pussy, itās just that their feminine traits (and specially their voice) turns me offā¦ I would never be able to be in a straight relationshipā¦
That is very interesting to me. I have chatted with a ton of people with different interests over the years but have never run across that comment before. Nothing judgemental intended, just an interesting observation on my part.
I get that, but itās true. Maybe Iām somewhat Bi (like 10/90), I find the pussy itself exciting, Iām just turned off by the rest of the package maybe thatās the same for straight folks that like dick without everything that comes with it?
There are some great bi / bi-curious discussions that cover this exact point. I am on the other side of sexuality but would rate myself as 30/70 straight. No issue with man bits or man sex (donāt like kissing at all) but also donāt want an intimate relationship or to wake up with a guy in my bed. First choice would be female bits, second choice would be female and man bits, third choice would be just man bits if the situation and person was right at the time.
Honest and fair question that I donāt mind answering but I do think we are getting too specific into my personal views rather than the aggregate of the topic title. Hopefully my reply spures a new tangent of discussion or someone picks up on a previous reply.
I am equally open to top or bottom depending on partener(s) interests or the dynamics of the encounter but neither I go looking specifically for. I did have a period in my life renting a room for about 6 months from a friend that had just come out and wanted to explore. I was curious so game on. We tried top, bottom, BDsm, toys, kissing and even snowballs. I didnāt like kissing same sex or male snowballs at all. I did find the rest erotic depending on my interests and arrousal at the time.
Fast forward a few decades later with an inactive wife I love dearly, I find simulated penetration to be appealing and the closest I get to giving same sex oral is a realistic silicon suction base penis. Once in a while I will put my own cum on it to make it as real as I can but itās not some kinky craving I need to talk about on 10 different sexual message boards either.
I have never had a partner strap on a dildo and demand āBend over boyfriendā. I think that would be huge for me. All that said, ladies and trans still first choices.
I have never heard the phrase ā cock curious,ā
But thatās how I would describe myself.
I really like the ācock curiousā phrase @pogo69. That is the term Iāve been needing for years to describe myself.
Iām exactly the same
My OH has tried to peg me with a strap on, but she said it wasnāt very comfortable for her to wear. A few months ago I showed her the penis strap on and told her thatās what I would like to have and needless to say she wasnāt very fond of the idea unfortunately. Says I brought it up at a bad time
I love when she pegs me with the strap on. Have 3 or 4 dildos varying in size and realism but I love every one. Especially the large 9 inch, although I wish it didnāt have the balls so I could get an extra inch or so inside me
Try harness briefs. Much more comfortable.
Pegging a guy is something ive never done. Not against it and would do it tho.