My OH has agreed to try it, next step is to sit down and talk strapons :D
That's awesome don't get a cheap one and make sure you let her know what feels good and how good make it a fun experience for her so it can be repeatableAndy1472 wrote:
My OH has agreed to try it, next step is to sit down and talk strapons :D
It was and it will be - we got http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30701 :D
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As you were :)
Just wondering if anyone has used lovehoney delay lube and how long does it take for it to work
My first foray into pegging was with my OH in a harness. I have to say though that whilst having plugs and vibrators in and masturbating it's amazing but the pegging did nothing for me at all. We lubed and it wasn't uncomfortable but it just "was" I wouldn't say it was pleasurable - any tips on things we might be doing wrong?
I've struggled with getting the pleasure side of it too, the act alone is exciting because I enjoy power play, but like you say it just "was". From what I understand, from forums and personal experience, there's a lot of expectancy about pegging; that it will feel great from the get go and that hands free orgasms are the norm. But, especially if it's your first time with an actual strapon, it's difficult to actually reach a prostate orgasm, and focusing on trying to feel something rather than the experience itself won't get you anywhere. I'd say keep doing it, try different positions or dildos, different speeds or strengths, see if anything works for you.
Thanks. I think maybe jumping straight to the harness may have been the mistake. If we try and work out what works with toys and dildos first then maybe we can use that to our advantage with a harness?Tholuc wrote:
I've struggled with getting the pleasure side of it too, the act alone is exciting because I enjoy power play, but like you say it just "was". From what I understand, from forums and personal experience, there's a lot of expectancy about pegging; that it will feel great from the get go and that hands free orgasms are the norm. But, especially if it's your first time with an actual strapon, it's difficult to actually reach a prostate orgasm, and focusing on trying to feel something rather than the experience itself won't get you anywhere. I'd say keep doing it, try different positions or dildos, different speeds or strengths, see if anything works for you.
Don't be put off by expecting too much too soon. While some people seem to get great pleasure from pegging very quickly I think for many of us it takes time to get comfortable with it. Using butt plugs of gradually increasing size for a few hours at a time helps you to get beyond the reflex that if there is something in there then you need the loo urgently. Even when you are OK with the butt plugs there is a significant difference when penetrated by a dildo that, unlike the butt plug, opens you up and holds you wide open for the duration.
What I can say is that it is all entirely worth the effort as the orgasm you get from pegging is amazing and quite unlike anything else. However, even when you are quite experienced and relaxed with pegging the orgasm is not by any means a sure-fire thing - it can be quite illusive.
It does take a while to get used to pegging you have to build up to it but once mastered the sensations can be mind blowing, I get some great orgasms from my oh doing it to me, start slowly and build up the intensity and speed and some great feelings and intensive knee trembles will be had
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What is pegging?
Lovedahoney wrote:
Hi
What is pegging?
Female using strap-on on male
We enjoy pegging quite regularly.
I've particularly enjoyed anal masturbation for quite a few years now and opened up to my OH N about it fairly quickly.
She embraced it and began occasionally using the toys on me with her hands.
Then we bought a strapon harness so she could fuck me properly.
Took a while to get used to it to be fair, thrusting in that way is not so instinctive for a woman and it does take a while to learn your rhythm and what works best for you both.
But it's well worth it.
While I haven't achieved the illusive sought after prostate handsfree orgasm yet, I have felt very close multiple times and know it will happen eventually.
Now, when N pegs me she gets better every time and Im in pure ecstasy, unbelievable pleasure and my orgasms when she fucks me are just insane! The most powerful orgasms I've ever had, proper full body orgasms with shakes that last for a good minute or two after the orgasm subsides.
Couldn't recommend it more.
I would say to anyone getting into it though.. Try a number of toys.. Some of my favourite are smaller, softer toys where you can really go to town without any discomfort.
Would love to try it but Mrs not keen she doesn't she how she would get any pleasure from it
Does she play with your ass at all with toys?
Perhaps try some mutual masturbation where you are doingng anal in front of her.. Show her how much you enjoy it..
My OH mainly really enjoys it because of how much pleasure it gives me.
Which in turn turns her on and she enjoys it more each time.
Horny-devils wrote:
Would love to try it but Mrs not keen she doesn't she how she would get any pleasure from it
How about you trade it for some other act that would give her a lot of pleasure?
We have a butt plug we both use and I'm waiting for a vibrating butt plug to arrive hopefully she will she how much I enjoy it
It's not all one sided I love to give her lots of pleasure. I love the build up to sex so kissing teasing etc
We both absolutely love anal play. Stepping up to pegging took a couple of attempts. The wife was very nervous initially and prefers to be the sub rather than the dom. Now we engage in pegging on very rare occasions. I hope that this will increase overtime but I love it and will enjoy what I get when I get it. After speaking with the wife about it she said she enjoys taking part but just has to be in a special mood to carry out the act.