by @Flidais, 19 Aug 2017
Lovehoney Main Squeeze Single Kegel Ball 30g
I am not a stranger to Kegel balls. I got my first one in my early twenties, a double-ball Fun Factory one. Thirteen years and two vaginal births later, my Fun Factory one wasn’t helpful anymore because it was too much of a challenge to keep it in for long periods of time and I don’t have time to do targeted practice. I just want to pop them in and go about my day without worrying they will fall out.
Before I had kids I could wear them all day. After two kids I was having problems with dribbling urine when I coughed, laughed too much or did cardio. The stress incontinence was negatively affecting my life. I had trouble losing the pregnancy weight because it was hard to do cardio without wetting myself or running to the toilet every few minutes. I certainly didn’t want to go to a gym because I was afraid of people noticing that I smelled like urine. I knew I could get things back to normal with this sort of thing, but my old device which is about 75g was too much for my current state, so I got this little guy.
Immediately I was able to wear it without it falling out, which was great for my confidence. Benefits from wearing it came quickly. I was able to wear it for longer and longer periods of time and in just a couple days I noticed an improvement in the stress incontinence. I could actually feel my muscles again as I clamped on to this, other toys or my husband’s cock. As I got stronger I started trying out the 60g balls too. As I got stronger I used the 60g ones more and more, but if I was having a day when the 60g ones were too much, then I would go back down to the 30g ones.
The product arrived quickly and discreetly, like always with Lovehoney. The smooth, seamless design of this product is great and I love the vibrant purple colour. I love that you can get such a lightweight Kegel ball for those that are having issues, although I think most people would probably be able to start with the 60g one. (You could always buy this 30g one later if you find the 60g too much from the start.)
However, if you have had kids and feel like things aren’t as tight or if you are dribbling urine, then this device is an ideal start to regain pelvic strength. You will of course then need to move up to the 60g version, then the 90g, etc. The loop helps with easy retrieval and the seamless connection makes it very comfortable to wear for long periods of time.
I am so happy to find the right weight Kegel ball which allowed me to get back to pelvic training, cure my stress incontinence and regain tightness in my vagina after two vaginal births. This has been a huge boost to my confidence, and since I can move up to heavier Kegel balls, I know I can keep improving. Of all the sex toys I have ever bought (and I have had quite a few) this one has had the biggest positive impact on my life. It has allowed me to get over a very distressing condition and it has allowed me to get back to pelvic training, something I have long been a proponent of.
Being only 30g, this kegel ball is perfect for absolute beginners, after pregnancy and for those with stress incontinence. If you are young, healthy and never had children, I would recommend skipping this one and starting with the 60g one. Be prepared to buy the heavier ones as you get stronger, because you won’t want to stop here.
Overall Rating: 10 out of 10 stars
Pros: Comfortable and a good weight for absolute beginners.
Cons: Nothing.
Bottom Line: A great place to start if you have lost tone or have urinary dribbling.