I was reading an article this week about a couple that had sex for a week to see if it would bring them closer. and they keep an account of how they felt every day
I mentioned this to my wife and surprisingly she agreed but I must massgae her every night for that week which i agreed too.
Hi. I think have sex often increases the intimacy between you and your partner and that is very important in a relationship.
But personally I couldn't commit to have sex beforehand because I just don't like the fact to have one thing more that I have to do, it's more of a frame of mind kind of thing. Your wife is very clever as getting a massage is always a good start, it works for me.
Hope you guys have fun and the outcome is the one you hope for. Keep us updated.
Your massage must've been very relaxing! Does she have a stressful job? Would it be a good idea to have sex at a different time of day when she's less tired? Or perhaps massage her a bit more vigorously so she doesn't fall asleep! I love a good massage but it does relax me so much I just want to sleep.
Or you could put some sexy music on when massaging her, music might keep her awake if it has an upbeat tempo! Good luck and keep us posted 😁
We go through phases. I think the most was 2 weeks of very night. But then we can also go through phases where we don't manage it for over a week at a time. I have a couple of chronic pain conditions and fatigue so we kinda do it as and when I'm up to it ![](upload://ez5kOkpKXRZOxjavAURYmQxVTau.gif)
Try combining the massage with sex at the same time. After a few minutes of giving my Mrs a massage last week I popped it in and slowly rocked in and out in time with the back rub. Judging by the sounds she was making I think she enjoyed it ;)
Ended up being a very sensual, slippery session. Will be trying that again (just be careful with which bottles the oil and which is the lube- I don't think oil is all that great inside the lady bits?)
Might suggest a week myself, sounds like a fun way to celebrate our 10th anniversary next month- 10 days of sex!
Thanks for the update. I'm sorry you didn't manage anything Sunday night. captain has decided that he likes the idea of sex every night for a week so we have had sex the last 2 nights and apparently he has plans for me tonight too. I think he is enjoying actually planning different things for us to do too.
Be careful this thread does not become 'When did you last have sex'...
Feel free to discuss this article you read and get other's opinion on the matter. Maybe others have already done this and it's worked or maybe has not worked for them.
If it becomes the same as the above I will have to close it.