I would be intrested to know how people would feel if you found out your partner had done something simmilar in his/her previous years, If him/her was to tell you they had done the above and slept with there friends partner at work/uni etc, is it something that could effect the way you view your partner.
Personaly for me i think sex should only be in realationship with someone you have strong feelings for so may find it hard to accept.
I worked in schools for a long time as a relief caretaker and always wanted to have sex on the heads desk but the wife would never come in.
But I do know of caretakers having sex in cupboards with cleaners
I did once hear a head having sex with her husband in her office after a govs meeting and I had gone back to lock up
The past is the past. It's not right now and it doesn't define a person.powys wrote:
I would be intrested to know how people would feel if you found out your partner had done something simmilar in his/her previous years, If him/her was to tell you they had done the above and slept with there friends partner at work/uni etc, is it something that could effect the way you view your partner.
Personaly for me i think sex should only be in realationship with someone you have strong feelings for so may find it hard to accept.
powys wrote:
I would be intrested to know how people would feel if you found out your partner had done something simmilar in his/her previous years, If him/her was to tell you they had done the above and slept with there friends partner at work/uni etc, is it something that could effect the way you view your partner.
Personaly for me i think sex should only be in realationship with someone you have strong feelings for so may find it hard to accept.
It wouldn't bother me at all, a lot of people take time to decide what relatioships work for them, I believe that sex is for love and yet before I met OH I had a casual thing with a friend where we had sex just for company. His past means nothing, as long as he knows and wants to be on a committed to loving sex with only me, and maybe one carefully planned threesome when were ready lol
powys wrote:
I would be intrested to know how people would feel if you found out your partner had done something simmilar in his/her previous years, If him/her was to tell you they had done the above and slept with there friends partner at work/uni etc, is it something that could effect the way you view your partner.
Personaly for me i think sex should only be in realationship with someone you have strong feelings for so may find it hard to accept.
It wouldn't bother me either; I don't think I really have a right to comment on what he did before he even knew me. Everyone changes and grows over time and I think the past should be left in the past.
I think there might be some mileage yet. I'm pretty sure she hasn't mentioned a football/rugby team yet.... Or Pizza Boy.Stuburns wrote:
Don't think people are commenting on the plausibility of the Op having done this more the Op's past threads. She seems to have completed every scenario/fantasy at the age of 18.
slinkykinky wrote:
powys wrote:
I would be intrested to know how people would feel if you found out your partner had done something simmilar in his/her previous years, If him/her was to tell you they had done the above and slept with there friends partner at work/uni etc, is it something that could effect the way you view your partner.
Personaly for me i think sex should only be in realationship with someone you have strong feelings for so may find it hard to accept.
It wouldn't bother me either; I don't think I really have a right to comment on what he did before he even knew me. Everyone changes and grows over time and I think the past should be left in the past.
I appreciate this point of view but personally i think people will judge someone for their previous behaviour and i dont necessarily think thats right or wrong.
If i was single and met a bloke who claimed to be like the op i wouldnt even give him a second look. It may sound judgemental but sexual history is a factor just like everything else. Some people dont like partners who have had many sexual partners, and some people dont like brunettes. Thats just the way it is!
I can appreciate that people grow and change overtime but there are some things i dont believe people really change from. An example would be cheating. If someone was known for cheating on every single partner they had, i would be put off as i wouldnt trust them not to do it to me no matter how much they claim to have changed. Likewise if someone spent a significant part of their adult life with multiple partners for casual no strings attached sex then that would also put me off.
macspants wrote:
I think there might be some mileage yet. I'm pretty sure she hasn't mentioned a football/rugby team yet.... Or Pizza Boy.Stuburns wrote:
Don't think people are commenting on the plausibility of the Op having done this more the Op's past threads. She seems to have completed every scenario/fantasy at the age of 18.
Haha, comical think I'll stick to my fantasies.
JM88 wrote:
slinkykinky wrote:
powys wrote:
I would be intrested to know how people would feel if you found out your partner had done something simmilar in his/her previous years, If him/her was to tell you they had done the above and slept with there friends partner at work/uni etc, is it something that could effect the way you view your partner.
Personaly for me i think sex should only be in realationship with someone you have strong feelings for so may find it hard to accept.
It wouldn't bother me either; I don't think I really have a right to comment on what he did before he even knew me. Everyone changes and grows over time and I think the past should be left in the past.
I appreciate this point of view but personally i think people will judge someone for their previous behaviour and i dont necessarily think thats right or wrong.
If i was single and met a bloke who claimed to be like the op i wouldnt even give him a second look. It may sound judgemental but sexual history is a factor just like everything else. Some people dont like partners who have had many sexual partners, and some people dont like brunettes. Thats just the way it is!
I can appreciate that people grow and change overtime but there are some things i dont believe people really change from. An example would be cheating. If someone was known for cheating on every single partner they had, i would be put off as i wouldnt trust them not to do it to me no matter how much they claim to have changed. Likewise if someone spent a significant part of their adult life with multiple partners for casual no strings attached sex then that would also put me off.
That's a fair point, I was looking at it as a one off situation rather than a character trait. If someone had made a mistake and slept with someone they probably shouldn't have way before I met them, I wouldn't hold it against them. However, if they had a reputation for being a serial cheat, I probably wouldn't be able to overlook that.
I have had sex at work when me and my husband first met cos we worked at the same place. We had sex in a storeroom during an works party and also on the bosses desk after everyone else had gone home.
Lovebirds_x wrote:
JM88 wrote:
Terri, la slut and lovebirds are two different people.
Umm this? I am quite clearly not the one telling the story...clue is in the different username ;)
And thank goodness it was sarcasm...was worried people actually believed porno scenarios were real life :p
I was confused as to what was actually fact and fiction in this thread. . . . .I also got confused, it would seem, who was posting what. Please accept my apologies Lovebirds :(
In my next sexual adventure I will be having sex in space with the whole planet and zombies 'sarcasm'.. for some of you who don't believe in the things which I get up to, that's your look out not mine..
I live in a dormitory in a different country away from England... Everyone at my dormitory has sex, sex is in every room, my neighbours in our shared bathroom which is in earshot of my bed... the guy who lives above me I hear his bed going up and down every day... So I am sorry that sex is everywhere in my face and that I to join the band wagon with my fellow students. Anyways I study abroad, away from the prying eyes of my parents, so if I get up to things with others because its naughty and because its easy to get bored when you live far away from home then thats good for me!
I am sorry (not really) that sexually I have had more fun than some of you... But there are lots of people in the world who has sex on a daily basis and not always with the same partner, I am not the only girl on the planet doing this, there are plenty... so lighten up a bit, if you can't stand what I write about then don't read it... Either way get over it, the human body is a beautiful tool and it is good to use your assets with your partner or who ever you feel like, before needing the hip replacements.
At the end of the day my body belongs to me, what I do with it, is my look out, if I end up with something due to unprotected sex then that will also be my look out.
End of my rant!
Terri JJ wrote:
Lovebirds_x wrote:
JM88 wrote:
Terri, la slut and lovebirds are two different people.
Umm this? I am quite clearly not the one telling the story...clue is in the different username ;)
And thank goodness it was sarcasm...was worried people actually believed porno scenarios were real life :p
I was confused as to what was actually fact and fiction in this thread. . . . .I also got confused, it would seem, who was posting what. Please accept my apologies Lovebirds :(
No problemo, easy to misread when stacks of quote appear :)
LaSlut, you're a forum newbie who starts an inordinate number of threads involving very porn esque scenarios. It's only natural you'll be met with people who don't believe your posts are true, just the way of forums really! Nothing personal you understand.
Though I would point out that being promiscuous and having fun sexually are not the same thing...everyone on this forum (given the nature of the place!) will be having just as much fun as you, so don't make it out to be a case of jealous sour grapes. There are plenty of people here with one partner, plenty with multiple and indeed plenty with none...we all have a hell of a lot of fun! Just as I said, when you post so many out there attention grabby stories...people will sceptical!
You're on a sex forum, it's fair to say most of are quite content with how much fun we have, so it's really nothing to do with that. Most of your stories are typical porno scenarios so people will be scepticle
No, too much paperwork in my office I would hate trying to put it back into order afterwards!
I don't know, it's hard to say, like many stories I read they can be true and some just aren't (even the more vanilla ones). I was rather adventurous when younger, had sex in a college class room, and regularly got up to strip poker. Then slept with a load of people at church and even gave a blow job on a church bus to someone training to be a vicar. I've also done the delivery guy one too, and a few more. But if I'm honest, the most exciting sex for myself is generally with someone I really know and at home or just outdoors in spring (I know lots of very private areas for that).
If you count my time escorting, I've slept with people who use to teach me, and I've slept with those in high powered jobs. I've had relationships with young men who actually own 6 bedroom homes before 20, and know a local politicians favourite fetish.
Then moving onto Domming away from sex I have to say it's been more fun dressing up men locally in dresses and as dogs etc, and then being able to see them in their real-life get-up and careers as I go about my day-to-day life.
Again, all this, to many would be very prono. And then as someone who works as a sex coach, even more vanilla things could be a porno scene to someone.
I'm just not sure you can judge it as real or fake, in any respect, to all who hasn't taken part in it themselves, it will be fantasy.
I had sex with a girl I worked with in my company pick up after visiting a customer Years ago.On the way there I did have my finger up her pussy. I really wanted her and she wanted me. Before we got together she went back to her office and had am orgasm thinking about me. I did the same .
She is now my wife.
Had sex in the reception at work with her and a while ago on a straw bale on a sunny day at work.
Just realised that I have been paid to have sex
I would not want to have sex on campus, the risk of getting kicked out of uni is not worth the 'excitement'! Also our uni is actually secure so they have cameras everywhere. My friend apparently had sex in the communal kitchen which again, is just nasty. The public sex is a nice fantasy but one I'd never carry out
Doesnt even have to be in a classroom, anywhere with the chance of getting caught is a great turn on 