So my man has some fantasy which is fine I more than likely obligation when discussed but then he asked mine and I came to a blank.
I don’t know what is like to do to a man fantasy wise. Is theere anything men really would like. Am game for stuff
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Your fantasy should be about what you want, not what you think someone else will like.
I’ll also add that not all fantasies have to be shared, or played out. Sometimes fantasies are just that, fantasy.
I’d have a think about what you enjoy, what turns you on, what you’ve thought you’d like to explore etc 
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Agree…think about yourself too!
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I totally agree with @SexInTheCity
He is asking for your fantasies, not things you think he might like. (Also everyone is different so even if people do give you suggestions, it doesn’t mean he will definitely like them).
It can be difficult to come up with fantasies when put on the spot, so take some time and have a think. It might be that nothing really comes to mind (or at least nothing that can be replicated together) and that is completely ok.
Sex should be fun, not a performance. If you have fantasies you want to share then that’s great and you should, but if you don’t then that’s fine too, don’t feel pressured to come up with something.
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Agree with everyone . If there is something you fantasize about , but you think it might put him off there is only one way to find out . My wife hid a fantasy about penetrating me for years until pretty trunk and she surprised me with a sudden finger in my bum while preforming a sixty nine position . We wasted many years of fun we could have been having . Worst he can say is no .
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I agree with what’s been said. They are your fantasies not what you think your partner might like. If you currently have no ideas then my advice is watch some porn either together or alone and see if there is anything that takes your interest ie something that you would like to try or experience, then tell your partner what you would like to try.
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@Misamisa why not both write down what you both fancy trying and then exchange notes with each other and see how it goes
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I agree with what others have said. It’s about what you like. Not what you think they want to hear.
Similarly, I don’t think I even had kinks/fantasies until I was like 27? It was like a lightbulb went off “Oh! This is what I’m into” type of thing. If you’re unsure, try and spend some quality with yourself to see what gets you going 
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