Hey all,
I just wanted to check something out with you lovely people but I'm apologizing in advance in case its a little too much like overshare.
Due to things happening its been roughly two weeks since I've been able to play so today I was able to catch a break and get down to business.
Now this is the weird oversharey part. I was using various toys in my back passage nothing too big, and I replugged and carried on with a regular dildo, as I orgasmed I pushed the plug out and accidently soiled myself.
This has never happened to me before and its put me off of playing.
Does this happen a lot or did I push myself too far too fast after not playing for a while?
Sorry if this isn't an appropriate question, not sure where else to ask people lol xxxx
When you orgasm the muscles contract (Pushed out the toy) and it sounds like because your bowel was "used" to the toy being there, it kind of forgot to differentiate between that and the other. I have actually seen this happen in porn (Accidentally) A woman pushed out a bum toy and accidentally...you get the picture. It can happen to anyone and is always a risk with anal play. There is nothing wrong and you probably were not doing anything to damage or push yourself, its just that you had some waste in your bowels and it came out with the toy.
You could try douching if that is a worry. It will reduce the risk, as will playing within an hour or so after a bowel movement.
But as with anal anal play, and whatever you do to prepare, there will always be a risk of this. At the end of the day, that is what this part of the body is designed to do.
It could be embarrassing for sure though, but such is life when playing with the bottom. :S
Thank you fluff bags:-)
Had it happen to me once, in the first few weeks of play. To prevent this from happening it is best to not just have the digestive system purged earlier, but be positively hungry. Plus 2-3 thorough douches right before. At least since then i haven't even had a hint of threat hovering around ;)
i always douche before anal play, its going to have happened to alot of people. dont worry you arent alone xx
Agree with all the other posts, try and be as empty as pos before hand and take it slow to start with, Yes it happens dont be to upset, if you enjoy the feeling take the time