Squirting question

Hey all :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

So this might sound like a weird question but iv been able to squirt since I was 18 and not gunna lie it scared me, I knew the position I was in that would make me do it my partner at the time loved it but I hated it… then as I got older I had a bf who made me feel disgusting for doing it but iv been with guys who say they love it so I calmed my body down and let it go lol iv done reading up on it and some people say it’s piss some say it’s a mix but how can guys want it it scares me to do it even now at 28… my question is do people really like it and what the hell is it? (Sorry it’s long) xxx

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I’ve had mixed reactions too @LilMissJ93

Some have loved it some have been disgusted. Guess as with all things some women do it and some don’t…some partners like it and some don’t.

One partner made me squirt with such force it was like a jet wash and soaked him…he was coughing and spluttering.
He didn’t mind it when actually having sex but in the face was a no no.
He was so good at giving oral too…

Lots of books and information out there with conflicting theories. Porn films are often over the top with it and very exagerrated.

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I personally love it. Can’t get enough of it!
My wife started squirting when she was pregnant the first time around and it was a huge turn on. When she did it for the first time we were both stunned but as soon as she knew I was comfortable with it, it happened more and more.
It’s only clear liquid, everytime, so to me it’s not pee pee.
I wish she could do it all the time in all honesty! I’m the one who always changes the bed sheets anyway, and I honestly don’t mind doing it as long as she gets satisfaction.

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It’s hard to believe that some guys don’t like it, I totally loved it with my last partner, always taking pictures of the after event, even went so far for her to squirt on my clothes so I could keep it and have it for my alone time. She gave me her panties that was special because it was the first time it happened and they were soaked.

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I love it, i take it as a compliment, but it’s obviously not to everyone’s tastes! :yum:

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Mine is clear but iv read that it’s a mixture of wee and something else :sweat_smile: think it just scares me if it is that :joy:

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I’d love it if my OH could give it a go

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It’s not pee. It has trace amounts of urea in it (which is found in pee) but then so does pre cum and no one stresses about that.

There have been very few studies about squirting and those there have been have had tiny sample sizes so it is impossible to give absolute answers about it. It does seem to come from the bladder with some added fluid from the skenes gland. That doesn’t make it pee though, as pretty much all squirters report that it is a different colour (clear), smell and taste to pee.

Honestly, don’t let anyone shame you for something your body does when you are turned on. Not everyone will like being with a squirter, but that’s down to them.

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I’m definitely on the ‘love it’ side with this!
My current GF didn’t know she could, but really enjoys it. I think part of that is because of how I respond, she knows it really excites me. She is more take it or leave it, and is unable to do by herself but that’s OK for her - we both like that its an ‘us’ thing.
I have always been fascinated with squirting, it is such a turn on for me. It’s like a very visual validation we’re doing something right. My past experience tells me everyone is individual in terms of if they can and what spots need hitting as it were. But it’s a natural thing, and for me, I couldn’t care less what it actually is in terms of liquid. If I were you, I would consider how it feels physically for you. If you enjoy the sensation, then go with it. With the GF we have things to hand to save bed soaking and that kind of thing.

So to answer the question as a male, hell yes I really enjoy it, but no idea what the hell it is. The GF enjoys it, but isn’t fussed whether happens or doesn’t.

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My hubby absolutely loves it so doesn’t really matter what’s in it lol.
I’m happy to give it to him and see the satisfaction he gets - the more the better.
A couple of weeks ago he got it all in his eyes… whoooops, I can’t control where it goes. He didn’t mind at all.

I think most men/women love it, it shows how much you satisfied your woman. But the way you are feeling could also be down to the mixed reactions you’ve had in the past - but it’s a natural thing, nothing to be disgusted about.

It’s all bodily fluids just like semen. Some people love, some people not so much.
Be happy - you have a gift that many women would love to have :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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@Calie with the knowledge once again! Didn’t know most of that other than my own experience, and that it’s clear.
Thanks for the info!

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Totally agree!

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Personally I love it when Bunny squirts… :sweat_drops:
Although she only does it now and again when I’m there, she does it a lot on her own.

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I can’t do it on my own but it normally happens if a guy is going down and using his fingers Iv only been with one guy when I was 18 who I could do it when we were intimate and thankyou everyone for your responses I felt silly writing it but I wanted to know personally I love the feeling but because of mixed reactions it scared me to do it :sweat_smile:

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Squirting doesn’t necessarily mean orgasm - they are separate things but sometimes happen at the same time. These threads may be useful for more info too:

Squirting/orgasm - are they the same thing?
Squirting and Cleaning

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You’ll find this is a great place to ask the “silly” questions!
Lots of really helpful people here.
I’ve learnt loads in a couple of months!

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Certainly nothing to feel silly about writing it at all!
I love the amount of info and different views on these forums, can ask anything I like and never feel judged, some amazing people on here.
I would say if you love the feeling, be yourself and just let things flow.
If someone makes you feel disgusting for it, I’d question if the partner’s right for you rather than questioning yourself and feeling bad about something that’s natural.
I have a problem with my legs. If I was with someone that couldn’t accept that then that’s more her issue, and simply not the right person for me.
Granted, my leg example is a little different, but I see both scenarios as the same and being able to feel comfortable being ourselves (I’m very lucky to be with an amazing GF that accepts all of me as I am)
Can understand why scared from those past reactions, be true to yourself and allow yourself to enjoy it. I’d expect most guys would love the ego stroke if you were to say that happens only when things are done in a special way!

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@SexInTheCity really … That’s interesting!
I’ve only ever squirted with an orgasm.

Going to have a read :blush:

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I would love it if the oh would or could squirt. She gets very very wet anyway but has never actually squirted and she is convinced its pee lol

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I would love my wife to squirt. I love watching porn when girls squirt and it is a fantasy of mine to be squirted on! If you can do it then that’s amazing!

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