Last night my wife and I had our first breakthrough success when it comes to pussy pumping, and all morning I’ve been so excited (no inuendo intended). Has anyone else got any success stories where they’ve tried something/or achieved something for the first time and they just can’t stop being excited by it?
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Congratulations on your pussy breakthrough 
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Search ‘pussy pump’ on the main website for products and in the forum for threads.
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Got there at long last 
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TW…knifeplay (just in case its needed for anyone).
Knifeplay (with full consent for both of us)…first time I was blindfolded and it was a guess the ‘toy’ game, I didn’t guess right the first time and I didn’t want to give in. Second time I said I really hope its a knife, I had been thinking of some sort of a tool as it was cold and I couldn’t decide if it was wet or just cold metal. It was only the flat edge that I was feeling. We’ve progressed from that to lightly drawing lines, shapes and words to what we call ‘carving’ and thats exactly as it sounds. Ive got him to lightly touch my clit with the tip of the knife…thats an incredible feeling 
I’ve come close to orgasm a few times but even the slightest movement takes away the safety factor so we don’t do this for long now. When we are talking about what we want to do or what ‘implements’ he is to bring, the knife is a pretty common request. It gets me excited just thinking about it.
Edited to add that this is done with our safety in mind. Precautions are taken and we’re both aware of the risks.
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I don’t see it as brave, we enjoy the extremes.
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I like the way we do it but I appreciate your concern, we are being safe.
Back to the topic, who else has things they are still as excited for?! Spill the tea people!
Nothing super mental for us but our pivotal moment, only a few months ago, when our passionate, amazing simple vanilla sex life turned upside overnight with one question. “Do you have any fantasties?”
Now I’m almost continually excited with all the adventures we are having and that are in store.
To put some sort of order in the unhinged creativity we are bringing in to the relationship, we have decided to alternate who gets to decide how a session goes down. To get his texts on his days about what he wants to do makes my stomach flip. To see his excited approval with my ideas also makes me super excited.
So we are having these moments a lot at the moment 
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Love this for you! 
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For us it was our first simultaneous orgasm on our wedding night. We will alway remember that.
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I’ve had that once! That is the goal and it always makes the orgasm a million times stronger. That was a great one
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The wife and I have had a couple of recent success stories:
- Watching porn together: she now wants to get a TV in our bedroom so we can watch more together.
- Light bondage/S&M: bought a paddle and after watching a few episodes of How to Build a Sex Room she asked me to spank her last night and we are now planning ways to have two spaces for adult playtime.
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I’ve been experimenting pumping my bum hole it looks like a plump donut when im finished and can feel it between my cheeks for several hours after
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This sounds super hot… I’m really nebby and want to know what some of the ideas for play have been now… like what has he suggested where you’ve just been like … 
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When my husband and I were first together, it took a long time to achieve PIV sex. I know, easy for most. But I’m intersex and that orifice is tiny and tight. I prefer anal, but at the time I was trying to be a “normal” wife and do wife stuff, including attempting to get pregnant. I actually managed to stretch to the point where I could take most or all of my GF’s hand. It felt like an amazing achievement, but I never experienced the pleasure from it that she does so I haven’t continued with it.
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Melanie Rose was our downfall as well!!
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We are still new too so taking it at our pace - at the moment just him telling me anything he wants to do I’m all in, but if you want specific ideas for play the When did you last have sex? thread is a goldmine for ideas. 
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Id love to try one sometime.