@anon8189768
Just out of curiosity does your wife like cum?
Because if she does, then surely sheāll be quite open to discuss it and itās something you could mention during a blow job - like, what would you think if I tasted my own cum.
Or maybe during sexting (if you do that) in the middle of dirty talk, you could throw it in and see how she reacts.
But I donāt see why it could be seen as being āgayā because itās your own cum.
If anything, some people probably just find it a bit gross - and they are likely to be people who donāt like it themselves.
Great question. She doesnāt enjoy my cum. Sheāll give me a bj but made it clear sheāll stop if I donāt give her the signal (usually three rapid taps on the shoulder) that Iām about to finish and I let it get in her mouth.
Sheāll actually stop to clean her mouth in the middle of a bj if too much precum leaks. Iād love to finish with her mouth wrapped around me but she actually does a pretty good job even with that not being on the list of ok things.
I wasnāt exaggerating that Iād clean my mess from her love tunnel after finishing, but thatās not likely a scneario that would soon occur. Mostly because condoms are our primary contraceptive at the moment. OH wouldnāt go on the pill so the only other option would be to get āthe snipā.
Only thing that scares me about getting a vasectomy is I play pretty rough with my balls at times, and having less tubes connecting them to my body seems like an easy way to āoopsā and make myself a eunuch by thinking I could handle more
The most likely scenario thatās possible is after a bj I finish on her breasts and she lets me clean her off orally. Which would be quite hot actually as Iād move straight into giving oral attention to her breasts and work my way down to happy land.
Still though, she might legit wonder if Iām using her to begin exploring male-to-male fantasies. That would be more counterproductive than it would be worth fulfilling the fantasy for a few sessions. That combined with the fact that Iām planning to ask her to peg me (hopefully soon) might be just too much simulation for her. Not that Iām using it as a ācuriousā simulation, I just enjoy prostate/anal stimulation and overall being dirty
Thank you for asking. I do like your suggestions
One more thought, even if she gave me a thumgs up to try either of those two, if she had a grossed out look on her face during either, it would totally kill it for me. In both scenarios I fantasize my wife enjoying and/or getting off on my naughtiness.
Sometimes I think you guys worry too much about stuff - when really, we would love to know all your dirty and kinky fantasies
You never know, she might just have some of her own secret desires that she would never dream of telling you as sheād feel too embarrassed or ashamed
lol Iām glad someone is getting enjoyment out of it (both jokingly and sincerely)
She might be, never know I guess. We had the sex talk a few times before we got married (however I suppose that was 12 years ago almost). We discussed hard limits, and things we may be open to trying but not exactly a desire at the moment.
I donāt feel like she threw out any kinks that she wanted to try, but I do recall her giving me her ānever gonna happenā list, which was relatively small. I was the one who had a list of things I wanted to try. Most of the items were positions though to be honest. I had more of course but the way things were going as I listed positions, I didnāt want to push my luck.
She was open to most that I wanted to try but had a few small stipulations on some if we were to do them (ie no cumming in her mouth for a bj). I quickly realized I was wildly more kinky than she was. But she also admitted she was not very experienced in the bedroom. And apparently not well versed in viewing porn (which isnāt a bad thing I donāt think).
But sheās been a champ to be honest. Never would have thought sheād ever try anything anal with me, but then one day sheās helping me put a plug in my backside lol She did appear very uneasy but I can hardly fault her for that. First anal experience and she had to see my guy booty. Iām becoming uneasy just thinking about it
Her willingness to plug me is part of the reason Iām hoping sheāll be willing to peg me. Though she may feel very different about wearing a location-accurate dildo than holding a plug in the palm of her hand.
Weāll see I guess. I think weāre good about hearing each other out on desires and ideas even if the answer is no. But some of the stuff I mentioned to this thread I feel would have her thinking hard about if Iām legit off my rocker. She wouldnāt hold it against me but sheād definitely need a few days to digest it.
Iād probably be irked if she came out with some crazy ideas at me. Not because I wouldnāt love to try them, but because she spent 12 years having me believe that doggy style and cowgirl are the most kinky thing that ever crossed her mind
My hubby and I have been together for a lifetime but you know, in the past year I have done quite a few things that I thought and had told him previously that I would never do.
Maybe lockdown drove me crazy
Peopleās needs and desires can change over time so I would deffo try and have a āfantastyā conversation or sex talk with her again just to see, Iām sure no harm can come from it
That is very true. Though if Iām being even more completely honest, Iām sorta in the dog house at the moment. Thatās the only reason I havenāt brought up the pegging yet. Once I find my way out though, Iāll definitely be trying to have that conversation
So after much deliberation and talking about it a bit over the past few days Iāve just been playing with myself with my new found love for things in the rear and whilst sat with 6ā fully inside wriggling about on it I let a load out into my hand! Not a huge load but not a bad amount! I was still massively excited with what I was sitting on that I quickly put it in my mouth as I continued to squirm and yank myself with my other hand! I put my head bsck with mouth wide open and swallowed the lot!
Iām not going to lie it wasnāt the best taste in the world but wasnāt as bad as I imagined, and itās left me knowing Iām definitely going to do it again!
I had a go last night, and went down on my OH after I cum inside her. I wasnāt quick enough to catch the full load but I got enough to get the idea. It was better than I expected to be honest. I will definitely be doing it again.
I have not been tasting my cum too often , but I do not know if it is my diet or maybe just my chemistry because I found my cum to be mild and actually a bit tasty . After impaling myself on a new dildo in the shower yesterday , about 20 minutes later I felt some pre cum getting ready to come out . I caught it all on my fingertip and it was the sweetest tastiest pre cum ever . No idea why , but I wish the volume of pre cum was much greater . Still have not been able to talk my wife into feeding me my cum right out of the tap .
I think as a woman this is such a turn on for a partner. My partner actually asked permission as he thought Iād find it weird but itās totally the opposite. Heāll lick it up from wherever he finishes and I get the most passionate kisses afterwards. Its amazing. I understand why people would be apprehensive about it although I think itās more of a male thing as I always do it as a female.
My partner holds my head down there when Iāve filled her with cum so I can lick it all out and then dribble it in her mouth and kiss her with it. Itās amazing!
I always think tasting my own cum sounds very hot while getting off, but then the urge passes immediately after cumming. Recently I forced myself to eat my load after, and it wasnāt bad at all and felt so kinky, after I must say I donāt know what women complain about it. It was hot.
I also love the idea of cleaning up my cream pie but as appears to be normal bottle it and have never done this so taking heart from you guy will try this new approach.
Iāve now done it 3 times, and each time I got over the hesitation that takes over immediately after cumming and swallowed it. Itās not bad, and hey, if I expect OH to swallow, I should be willing to do the same. Lol.
@Mr_Mrs_GJT well done mate I have tasted myself on my own Accord and for the first time the other night I jizzed on the ohās dot then licked it off then she wanted to taste it from me was hot asfā
I donāt know why, but this old topic just appeared in my suggested list ā¦ but thought I would add my pennyās worth xx
Historically I donāt seem to produce much pre cum, but love to lick it from my fingertip when I do, it tastes lovely. I find that if I do, it helps set the scene for the main event!! Lol
Of late, and using a wand stroking my perineum quite hard, I now ultimately produce a quote a bit more ā¦ and again love licking it from my fingers.
