Wizzie86 wrote:
I was debating leaving not long ago because I felt pushed out, unwelcome and unvalued as a few people on here know. I agree with a lot of both WandA and Alicia's points. I think that the duplicate threads issue is a sore point partly because when we were new members it was drilled into us that you don't create duplicates without a reason and someone would always point you in the right direction. It feels very strange to do a complete 180 and as WandA suggests, change the rules because a few new members don't like the old ones. I'm all for going with the flow and changing things for the better but many older members don't want to post the same information over and over again. In the end you end up not posting at all as there is rarely anything original. That said... I think sticking the basic threads (squirting/begginers toys/anal beginners) is a good way to stop these at least being repeated too often and fingers crossed that the new system works as well as the old one used to! X
Hi Wizzie,
Good point, well made. I have found quite often that whilst l may not necessarily have been consciously pushed out, that a few of my posts have been ignored in the sense they didn't elicit any response which l construed as a lack of interest. I have come to the realisation however that it might be no one understood what the hell l was banging on about, so l have got over it largely.
The group dynamics do change when old stalwarts- Bath Bi Guy, Lubyanka, ImeldaImelda and others move on, not forgetting SublimeLongLegs of course.
Things come round in time though, just a matter of getting to know people again- that change thing that people dislike comes in here as well.....
All l can say is stick with it, unless life takes up too much of your time, your choice though at the end of the day clearly.....
TB