Hi everyone,
There have been so many threads recently turn into a discussion about duplicate threads and so we feel the need to clarify our view. And that is:
We don't want the forum to be boring!
So...
1) we don't want the same threads repeated day in, day out
AND
2) we want new people, new threads and new perspectives to be valid and welcome.
The LoveHoney Forum Rules have been reworked again to lighten the heavy-handedness that was present in the old rules about searching for threads. The advice is now:
"Have a search for previous threads before starting your own and if there was a recent discussion on the topic, bump that thread rather than starting a new one."
Therefore, people should not be redirected to previous threads, unless the topic was covered in the past month. Linking to a thread with lots of info is fine, but not when the advice is that they should have posted on that thread instead.
We hope this will make the forum friendlier for newbies and yet still fresh for oldies.
If a thread is 2 or 3 years old, and was last posted on six months ago we believe it's fair game for a new thread, for new faces and fresh perspectives from all who wish to contribute.
Many of the older threads are now mostly made up from people who left these shores some time ago and are sometimes over 4 and a half years old. An internet eternity.
Improvements are in the pipeline - a better search facility for one, and hopefully being able to link to specific posts.
Therefore, if you wish to link to a piece of your own advice that you gave on a different thread, you could say "Have a look at what I posted before... [link to single post that was found through the easy search] and I think that might help you. Also in your situation I would probably... x, y, z." So previous advice is linked to, but the new person's thread is still valid.
We want to be as welcoming as possible to newbies - they're usually super excited and often don't know better. At the same time we want to value the experience of oldies as well as their fun and friendliness.
We know that there is a HUGE amount of advice and knowledge on the forum and believe a sticky with frequently discussed topics would be useful. Not to force people to post on, but to be available easily for everyone to access as we know the search is iffy at best.
If you want to comment and/or suggest helpful threads to add to a sticky please suggest them.
Here's a couple to kick the list off:
Anal sex for beginners http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/anal-sex-toys/362-anal-sex-for-beginners-any-advice/
Female ejaculation - how to do it http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/sex-tips-and-advice/9-female-ejaculation/page-21/