Yes, it was a big bugger! Cannock/Lichfield not too far apart!
@valbowski77 Lets move this in here for a sec. Ok, how can i help. You obviously wanted something more specific?
Googling a guide to g spotting may help. (Same for other types of orgasm too)
Heres a few decent threads with good advice. There is alot of info on g spotting on the forum.
Im a little hesitant to be super specific as what works for me may not for another person (sorry).
Just an update/FYI on my medical thing. The blood test result was negative (hurrah!), so it’s deffo not the really nasty thing I was fearing. It is most likely something unpleasant but far less serious, although that has yet to be confirmed: still something I would seriously never wish on anyone, mind you.
I guess there’s no harm in naming the ailments now: I’m sure I can trust you guys not to go off into a festival of horror stories about either of 'em. Seriously, folks, I’m stressed enough …and the thing I have most likely got is caused/aggravated by stress, so…y’know. ![]()
Long story short: I thought it might be Giant Cell Arteritis, and if it had been, until the blood test came back, I was living on a knife-edge of uncertainty (untreated GCA can cause sudden, irreversible blindness). The treatment for GCA is several years of heavy-duty steroids, with all the risks and consequences thereof - so THANK HEAVENS it isn’t that! ![]()
What it appears to be is (deep breath…) Temporomandibular Disorder (TMD): a condition where the muscles in your skull that operate your jaw contract of their own accord, pretty much at random, 24/7. This causes discomfort and pain in the head, neck, jaws and teeth. Mine is currently pretty mild, as it is in most people, but severe TMD can cause lockjaw. Eek. ![]()
On the upside, it’s one of those conditions that can just disappear as mysteriously as it arrived. There are no drug treatments for it: as it’s a manifestation of stress/anxiety, you manage with massage and taking steps to reduce your stress levels.
Sorry - I didn’t mean this post to be so long. Just needed to say it out loud, I guess. ![]()
Thank you, @Justthe2ofus2007 - I would certainly be up for meditation. ![]()
Glad it’s not as bad as you feared. Hopefully things will either go of their own accord or can be treated with medication. Either way you know we’re here for you. ![]()
So glad it wasnt the worst case scenario, i can see why you where so worried. Heres hoping some destressing helps with the jaw. Maybe mindfulness would be worth a go, i hear it can be very effective for stress.
Certainly glad for your sake that it wasn’t what you originally thought it might be but TMD still sounds pretty bloody unpleasant!
Hope you can manage your stress levels and get some kind of relief ![]()
That’s good then and surely it helps your confidence too
Very good news @PleasureDrone - I bet the TMD has been worse this last week or so worrying that you might lose your sight! Still sounds very uncomfortable but hopefully having a diagnosis and stress management techniques in the rest of your life will help and in time it will resolve itself
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If you bring a quote with you @Justthe2ofus2007 it links up the conversations, and then people don’t have to go hunting to figure out what you’re talking about. ![]()
Did you figure out how to fill in your tax forms in the end?
Excellent news @PleasureDrone ![]()
you must be proper relieved after the stressfulness the they the situations caused fir you. Very positive about the likely disorder often vanishes as mysteriously as it arrived.
It sounds as though if you can get stress and anxiety down the condition will likely go away, is that correct? Have you been given any techniques to help you with the anxiety and stress? I was given a few sheets of a4 with information on with advice on how to manage anxiety. There is a lot of different techniques as there’s no one-size fits all. I’ll have a look for it tomorrow as it’s late and I’m not feeling well atm n have brain fog but I will definitely try to find it out n type the tips out ![]()
I’m in a world of pain with it right now @AmyA I know what you mean, it’s rare that I can use the technique due to the sickness and headache. Do you find that the headache brings sickness on and vice vesa on shark week
the thing with mines it hasn’t arrived yet, the build up a few days before and the first two days can be horrendous, ofher times the pains non-existent thank goodness!
The day off was required @AmyA saves stress being added to the roercoaster of emotions, sickness and pain. Sounds like you’ve gotten through the worst of it, glad you’re on the mend. Fingers crossed you’ll be pretty much back to yourself after a good night’s sleep
thought this is the best place to post, I may be wrong though x
Never watched a cam girl in my life, but i would assume if they’re paying to see you, they are not talking crap, otherwise they’d be paying to see someone else! Let their honest opinions boost your confidence! ![]()
That’s really very generous of you, Alyssa - thank you. Don’t worry if those sheets won’t come to hand, though: sounds like you’ve got quite enough on your plate! ![]()
Yeah the sickness is from the headache, usually I don’t get as nauseous as I did this time, was struggling to even finish a cup of tea! I’m lucky I don’t usually suffer from much other symptoms than the headache, don’t really get cramps bad anything like that. I’m usually the same with the headache just before/right at the start but everything seems to have been a bit out this time, didn’t actually start till a day before was due to start taking pills again after the week break
our bodies are just weird sometimes!
Thinking of you @PleasureDrone. We all know how worried you were so must be such a relief to find out it isn’t GCA! ![]()
So glad it’s not the more serious illness @PleasureDrone but TMD still sounds far from pleasant!!
Sending hugs xx
Glad it isn’t worse @PleasureDrone . I have TMD (although my D stands for dysfunction), and for me, it is just about not clicking my jaw or grinding my teeth. I have no other ill effects, so hopefully it’ll be similar for you.
That’s good.
I bet it’s a right faff with all the gifts and stuff.
But at least you’ll have an earnings record for anything official you might need later.
Hi @KinkyMira - Interesting… a friend of mine in the USA has it too. She tends to grind her teeth in her sleep, so has to wear a mouthguard at night. Living alone, I’ve no idea whether I do that, but I seem to always wake up with a relaxed jaw, so I’m guessing not. All my life, though, I’ve had an unconscious thing of clamping my teeth together (I think it’s related to the stammer I had as a kid), and when listening to music (even just a tune in my head) I often tap out the rhythm with my teeth. Gotta un-learn those habits now!
I do that too, tapping out the rhythms on with my teeth, up down, side to side!
I clamp down and grind my teeth when stressed too, quite often broke my fillings or actual tooth doing that, i have promised my dentist i’ll try and control it, but it’s a subconscious thing.