Feeling fat - too much chocolate and cider last night
I know the feeling 
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Not feeling too bad at present although like others could do with losing some weight. Thank you for asking @AbigailM03
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Pretty good, Iāve got some time off work to enjoy, if the weather bloody gets its arse in gear 
Hope youāre keeping well @AbigailM03
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Hmmmm weatherā¦ Planned fir a garden project but rains stopped play
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All good here @AbigailM03. Iāve been scoffing my left over pizza from last night so im super happy. Hope youāve been ok 
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If Iām honest @AbigailM03 Iām feeling a bit despondent, Iāve been reading various threads and the multitude of posted replies for the last half hour whilst having me breakfast and i canāt help but wonder if Iām ever going to have any kind of sex with my wife ever again!!!
Now i know itās difficult for her with her various conditions and I often wonder if Iām being selfish for having such thoughts.
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Itās not selfish at all. We are human, and a large part of that is sharing physical contact, wether it be a hug, holding hands, sex etc, as well as company and conversation.
Donāt feel guilty or think youāre selfish, look after yourself or you canāt adequately look after your loved oneās. Medical conditions canāt be helped, but it doesnāt make it any easier on the caring partners.
Always someone here if you need support.
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Cheers @WillC,i know i need to look after myself better than I do,but sometimes its so bloody hard!!!
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Itās a learning curve, it took me ages to realise it, and to act on it. I am now not afraid to say no to things i donāt want to do, and do things that please me. Donāt let others drain your enthusiasm and optimism, or take your good nature for granted.
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@D_and_E ā¦ Ive been separated 8 months now, divorce in process should be finanalised by Christmas
Hope you are doing ok x
Sorry to hear that! We split up last July, she started going out more, moved back home with her mam then after weād split up I found out sheād been cheating, mine is probably a similar time line so should be divorced by Xmas aswelā¦how you been finding things? x
@D_and_E Im so so sorry, thats awful, I hope you are getting any support you need
Im doing really well, I had a whole thread about my split 
LH helped me loads
We were both very unhappy, he realised it, I didnt, I was very detached from myself and my emotions
After two months of counselling and trying we split just before Christmasā¦ and I started to rebuild (with a tonne of counselling)
Now Im like a new woman, I sea swim, gym, play squash, eat out, walk, yoga, journal and have an amazing relationship with my Son
Just started a Friends with benefits relationship with an old friend recently. Life is good x
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@The_Little_Ladybird im so glad youāve come out of it in a positive way, long may it continue! Yeah I had counselling for a bit, not so much for the break
Up, it was more the loneliness. Iāve always been working, at the gym or at home with my partner so didnāt have anyone else really when she left so kind of got myself stuck in a big dark hole
It definitely seems your break up has given you a new lease of life, Iāll have to look through your thread, might help me outā¦I did write a post in the members we miss thread the other day but put your old user name in x
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@D_and_E Id cut myself off from almost everyone, but was very lucky that my neighbour that I barely knew took me under her wingā¦ weve become best friends and she has been my biggest supporter.
I hope you are getting out there a little now. Ive always enjoyed your contributions here xx
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Thanks @The_Little_Ladybird Iām going to try and get on here more often , I enjoyed it and thereās so many brilliant people on here
So nice to hear from you though and glad your doing well x
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Sorry to hear that @D_and_E, I hope life gets better soon mate.
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Iām really glad life is getting better for you @The_Little_Ladybird 
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Thanks @Knight1119 hope youāve been doing ok!