Turned on by same sex but straight

When watching porn how many people get turned on looking at the same sex? My OH loves looking at other women having sex but doesn't think of herself as bisexual. She particularly loves watching other women masturbating. Personally I don't get turned on looking at men but it turns me on watching my wife getting horny watching women

I think I'm right in saying this is pretty darn common...certainly it has been discussed many times on here that women often enjoy lesbian porn but would consider themselves straight or nothing more than bi-curious. Worry not.

No worry not...you say especially the women masturbating scenes...she knows exactly how that woman is feeling sexually and that build up to orgasm she knows too well so seeing another woman aroused makes her want that feeling too and the same with having sex seeing another woman loving it...she wants it too...

I know that for me, porn is about imagining myself in that situation. I don't particularly go for lesbian porn as I don't have a vagina, so can't put myself in the scene. If its girl on girl as part of a MFF threesome, thats different. Same when you see a guy getting a BJ, handjob, PIV or anal, I need to see it to get my head in the scene, but its not the penis I am fantisizing about as such.

I don't watch gay porn as again, I don't see myself in that situation, bi (MMF), sometimes briefly but again, I can't see myself wanting to have sex with another penis (and this is from someone who will happily masturbate with a dildo anally or get pegged by my mrs).

Theres nothing wrong with fantasizing, whatever turns you on (or doesn't) is very individualistic

I love to watch lesbian porn. I am straight but love watching two girls pleasuring each other. My husband often copies the girls whilst I watch and do I get a great orgasm!

CurvyJilly34F wrote:

No worry not...you say especially the women masturbating scenes...she knows exactly how that woman is feeling sexually and that build up to orgasm she knows too well so seeing another woman aroused makes her want that feeling too and the same with having sex seeing another woman loving it...she wants it too...

This! I'm straight but I find it a turn on because of what is happening and wanting it to me and imaging it but not for any other reason

I’m straight but I enjoy both straight and lesbian porn. The women in any porn I watch are more important to me than what the men look like. I’ve never had a lesbian experience but I would be open to it but ultimately I’m straight and would miss d1ck too much ha.

A female's body-Regardless of shape and size-is a thing of buety, I can undertand why women would want to watch another female pleasure themselves, or watch them indulge in sex.

Male on male is not quite the same, the appeal only comming from oral and anal, how or why is the obvious question for "Straight guys" Yet it is an animalistic scenario, many annimal species have male on male sex. In fact gay/bi sex dates back thousands of years, the romans were notourious for it.

In this day and age I think that a lot of people now think "I wonder how that feels" "I wonder if that is worth trying"

With porn now being more accessable, people are now willing to be more broad minded and experimental.

Not uncommon at all. Just enjoy it and let your mind and fantasies unravel themselves!

I'm male, straight and married.

I love to watch a man cum when I'm watching erotica but it needs to be in a loving situation - Connie Carter and her husband Denson are particular favourites.

Sexart films are particularly good at portraying couples - Nancy A and her partner Martin spring to mind.

FF erotica does little for me...

Back when I was younger and still discovering the joys of sexual activity, I had the opportunity to have some fun with someone the same sex as me (male on male). I figured why not and gave it a go. Needless to say, it didn't do much for me and it reconciled in my mind that I was definitely heterosexual. Despite that, I find male gay porn a turn on. Can't say I know why, as there's not much about men I find attractive... But who cares, if it works at getting me aroused then why bother trying to figure it out. I also find lesbian porn a turn on too, but I doubt that is particularly unusual for a straight male.

I love Connie Carter. Her breasts are unreal. Definitely wouldn’t say no to some girl on girl with her. I’ll need to check out your other recommendation just now.

KinkyKLL wrote:

I love Connie Carter. Her breasts are unreal. Definitely wouldn’t say no to some girl on girl with her. I’ll need to check out your other recommendation just now.

Agree with you about Connie Carter! She is lovely. Zaniest Skymm is lovely too. She makes love with her current partner Nicky Nutz. She also goes by the name of Mikkie Galante.

I have recently started watching guys masturbate in porn, Don't know why but I get a kick out of watching them wank how they do it and seeing how they cum, I'm not bi in any way. I'm not ashamed in watching it I think it's different that's why I'm watching it.

I've watched (on the internet) two young lads having sex before, my wife says if I'd not met her I might have ended up bi.

Sexuality is too fluid to care about whether or not something is or isn't straight. What's wrong with being a little bisexual? It's a sliding scale with a million different points on it. People fuss themselves too much with labels nowadays over what is or isn't straight or gay or bisexual. Maybe some stuff is just a fantasy and some stuff is something people like to actually do, regardless, to me, I feel like far too many people stress themselves over their sexual identity and inhibit their sexual freedom for it.

Well put. Xx

MK7 wrote:

Sexuality is too fluid to care about whether or not something is or isn't straight. What's wrong with being a little bisexual? It's a sliding scale with a million different points on it. People fuss themselves too much with labels nowadays over what is or isn't straight or gay or bisexual. Maybe some stuff is just a fantasy and some stuff is something people like to actually do, regardless, to me, I feel like far too many people stress themselves over their sexual identity and inhibit their sexual freedom for it.

This is pretty much what I was going to write. I find the twisting and turning that some people do to avoid being seen as bi is really sad.

I'm afraid it is back to my pet hate of social norms. People are scared of not being the norm, because of society and its attitudes, and as such, people end up denying things because of it. I really wish society would let people be.