i'm looking to invest in my first vibe lol big moment for me! Sadly my OH lives like 45 minutes away and so we only get to actually have sex once a week...i need satisfaction more than that so i figured i'd invest in a vibrator. However theres so much choice! i feel lost!
I was looking at the basic lady lustfinger mini vibe (sorry couldn't get links to work) or the lovehoney super7 smoothie silicone vibrator and a couple of others bt i just can't decide!!!!
Wow what a request!!! kinda depends on many things, size of your um er..... you know what, how experienced you are, are you looking for stretch or just something to twizz around inside you setting off all your nerve endings and screaming so loudly he hears you even though 45 minutes away... sorry getting carried away here.... you get my drift l am sure.
Oh yea hiya too wenchiepie, not from Wigan are you by any chance???
i'm looking to invest in my first vibe lol big moment for me! Sadly my OH lives like 45 minutes away and so we only get to actually have sex once a week...i need satisfaction more than that so i figured i'd invest in a vibrator. However theres so much choice! i feel lost!
I was looking at the basic lady lustfinger mini vibe (sorry couldn't get links to work) or the lovehoney super7 smoothie silicone vibrator and a couple of others bt i just can't decide!!!!
Help!!!
I'd say get the lustfinger anyway - it gets fab reviews and is a bargain! It's insertable and it vibrates so worth just chucking in your basket!
As for other vibes - it depends what you're looking for.
Do you want something insertable or just something for clit play? And are you on a budget or prepared to splash out?
Wow what a request!!! kinda depends on many things, size of your um er..... you know what, how experienced you are, are you looking for stretch or just something to twizz around inside you setting off all your nerve endings and screaming so loudly he hears you even though 45 minutes away... sorry getting carried away here.... you get my drift l am sure.
Oh yea hiya too wenchiepie, not from Wigan are you by any chance???
Tallboy
size? errr not sure lol you can fit a penis in it haha! i'm not massively experienced but i have sex with my OH a lot lol so i'm experienced with him.... I'm looking for something to twizz around lol just something so i can get a bit more pleasure when hes not here.
@AdnaW - ok, well seems logical lol so i'll get the lustfinger. I'm more looking for insertion than clit play, i'm not really on a budget....i was saving for a treat for myself anyway lol might as well splash out on something i'll really enjoy haha! Its so hard to choose! I want something quiet defo cos well, i live with my parents haha and they are very very religious!
ooh i'd only checked out one of those before, the lelo mia looks nice....
Maybe go slightly naughty and get something long, bendy and vibratory, you could then place one end on the nervy bit outsode your ass and imagine being ..... dpd..... should help maybe!!!
@AdnaW - ok, well seems logical lol so i'll get the lustfinger. I'm more looking for insertion than clit play, i'm not really on a budget....i was saving for a treat for myself anyway lol might as well splash out on something i'll really enjoy haha! Its so hard to choose! I want something quiet defo cos well, i live with my parents haha and they are very very religious!
ooh i'd only checked out one of those before, the lelo mia looks nice....
The Mia isn't really for internal use, probably too small.
Wow what a request!!! kinda depends on many things, size of your um er..... you know what, how experienced you are, are you looking for stretch or just something to twizz around inside you setting off all your nerve endings and screaming so loudly he hears you even though 45 minutes away... sorry getting carried away here.... you get my drift l am sure.
Oh yea hiya too wenchiepie, not from Wigan are you by any chance???
Tallboy
size? errr not sure lol you can fit a penis in it haha! i'm not massively experienced but i have sex with my OH a lot lol so i'm experienced with him.... I'm looking for something to twizz around lol just something so i can get a bit more pleasure when hes not here.
nah not from wigan, and hi to you too :)
penis in it hmmm same can be said for a zeppelin but wont go there!!
@AdnaW - ok, well seems logical lol so i'll get the lustfinger. I'm more looking for insertion than clit play, i'm not really on a budget....i was saving for a treat for myself anyway lol might as well splash out on something i'll really enjoy haha! Its so hard to choose! I want something quiet defo cos well, i live with my parents haha and they are very very religious!
ooh i'd only checked out one of those before, the lelo mia looks nice....
I'm not an insertable kind of girl but I LOVE my glass dildo for insertion http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11681 - it doesn't vibrate of course, but it is fantastic when combined with a clit vibe of some kind.
Can't really help otherwise as I don't really have any insertables.
@AdnaW - ok, well seems logical lol so i'll get the lustfinger. I'm more looking for insertion than clit play, i'm not really on a budget....i was saving for a treat for myself anyway lol might as well splash out on something i'll really enjoy haha! Its so hard to choose! I want something quiet defo cos well, i live with my parents haha and they are very very religious!
ooh i'd only checked out one of those before, the lelo mia looks nice....
I'm not an insertable kind of girl but I LOVE my glass dildo for insertion http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11681 - it doesn't vibrate of course, but it is fantastic when combined with a clit vibe of some kind.
Can't really help otherwise as I don't really have any insertables.
Good luck :)
Axx
Great help- don;t be so self deprecating- what floats your boat can float others- Helen apparently floated 10,000 boats- what a gal eh, and that was just her boat race!!!
TB ( Total Bollocks- just in case anyone lying awake at night wondering!!!)
Lots of good advice so far. I'll put in my two pence worth and say don't be a fool like me and go for something with too many fancy features for your first vibe. You can always get something more girthier, more textured or whatever else you think you want later on. Go for something reasonably basic for your first time.
Wow what a request!!! kinda depends on many things, size of your um er..... you know what, how experienced you are, are you looking for stretch or just something to twizz around inside you setting off all your nerve endings and screaming so loudly he hears you even though 45 minutes away... sorry getting carried away here.... you get my drift l am sure.
Oh yea hiya too wenchiepie, not from Wigan are you by any chance???
Tallboy
size? errr not sure lol you can fit a penis in it haha! i'm not massively experienced but i have sex with my OH a lot lol so i'm experienced with him.... I'm looking for something to twizz around lol just something so i can get a bit more pleasure when hes not here.
nah not from wigan, and hi to you too :)
penis in it hmmm same can be said for a zeppelin but wont go there!!
TB
haha i'm not zeppelin sized either! those things are mahoosive!
thanks everyone, lots of good advice here, reckon i'll just start with a basic one hehe my OH keeps joking about how he might buy a clone-a-willy kit and make me one of his anyway so who knows, could have one of those soon anyway!
...it's a good choice because it means you can really experiment with the speed of vibrations, or none at all, on your clit, finding your gspot, positions and motions without having to worry about ears, pointy bits, wires or buttons getting in the way!
The one thing I would say is to get some lubricant to go with it too if you don't have any already, not just for solo play, but for use with a partner too. Whether you think you need it or not, you'll certainly notice the difference it makes!
The Durex Aloe Vera is a very gentle one to start out on and leaves your skin feeling moisturized...
Hope it's ok for you hun. If you decide to get anything else then don't forget to look at the rabbits or if you like oral, the sqweel. Also look at the adopt a toy thread where members send unwanted and unused toys to other members (usually just for a small gift off their wishlist to cover postage) xxx
well, i still haven't used it! i've had a hell of a lot of sex though haha so not needed it, but i don't get to have sex for a while and i'm horny now, so might....but feels weird doing it on a sunday haha