Vibrator Recommendations Please!

Hi guys!

I'm just new to lovehoney and have still to buy my first toy! I was wondering if anyone who's tried out a few vibrators of any type (wand/bullet/dildo etc) would be able to recommend which ones have the strongest/hardest vibes? I need a real hard hitter! I'd really appreciate it since it's hard to tell by reading the product description and some people who review will like weaker vibes.

Thanks for helping <3

Hi & welcome to the forums. You've came to the right place for advice.

A bullets always a great start for a first toy.

Being a power queen id recommend the desire bullet for clitoral stimulation. It's very, very powerful which fits your criteria.

Are you looking for insertable toys aswell? If so let us know and we'll give you some recommendations 😙💗xx

First off, welcome aboard! Is this your first ever toy? If so, could high power be a bit much for a first foray into vibrators? https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/vibrator-finder/ might help you find a few that tickle your fancy. There's a section for powerful vibes I think, and I'm sure people here will have a few good recommendations!

Hi, welcome to the forum 😘

Like Irie has mentioned above, if it's your first toy you might be better off starting out with something that's not quite so powerful....

But if you're sure that you need powerful vibrations then I can whole heartedly recommend the We-Vibe Tango, I purchased it last week and although it's a bit pricier than other bullet vibrators it feels absolutely amazing - but it is very powerful in my opinion, even on the very first setting! It's also rechargeable and waterproof which just makes things so much easier. I'm pretty new to sex toys and I really couldn't be without mine now, turns out I need a bit of power too!

Hope you find what you're looking for 😊 Xx

Hi and welcome. I remember that exciting feeling of buying my first toy.

If you want pin point vibration a bullet is the way to go. My favorite is the Desire bullet but the Wevibe Tango is so a massive fan fave
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36366
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30320

If you something that can stimulate a bigger then wands are good
Fifty Shades rechargeable wand
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29578

Lovehoney deluxe main powered wand
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31087

Last but not least...the Doxy
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/brands/doxy/

My favourite is definitely my doxy. Whether I'm looking for a good long play or a 'quick fix' it does the job....everytime xx

I broke my Doxy! In my defence OH was away at sea...
The lovehoney mains and rechargeable small wands are good.
Lelo for build quality, their bullet vibe looks like lipstick size USB drive, taken that to Gulf countries where want something portable and discrete.
For wands particularly- remember lube. I like sliquid organic, taste and odour free and won't mess up body balance.
Have fun... don't plan on doing much after the postie arrives

This was my first ever vibrator - I remember it fondly and would recommend it to anyone who is looking to dabble with sex toys:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=10157

It works with just a push on/off button, it's really discreet, it's waterproof and it's inexpensive, so it ticked all the boxes for me when looking for my first vibrator. The only downside is, I found it difficult to find batteries at the time that fitted it, but we do stock them here at Lovehoney.

This one is very similar (although it has the added bonus of multiple speeds and patterns) and takes an AAA battery, much easier to find:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34002

If you have more money to spend - I also second the recommendations of the Desire Bullet Vibrator and the WeVibe Tango. I also recently acquired a Je Joue Mimi and I absolutely love it.

The LH mini wand! It's amazing. It was my second ever vibrator and I'll never go back!!

Welcome to LH forums !

My wife can't get enough of this rabbit from LH https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14099

£30 well spent, and as a bonus the rabbit's ears vibrate so much that it can get me off in a couple of minutes too, when placed under the head of Little Mo.

Hay! Thanks for replying! ![](upload://4WyQT1gwKaQJNwhYxrKZ1rOPglF.gif)

Is this the bullet you were talking about? https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36366. I'm definitely being drawn to bullets. I was looking at wands since I've heard so much about them but I think I want something more portable! I'm not sure if I want something for penetration honestly! It's never been great for me solo but I'm not sure if I get something with vibes that would help? I prefer shallow penetration anyway so a bullet will suit my needs but if you have any suggestions go ahead!

Thanks again ![](upload://h7LJ67OOrR57VDYrj5ZEwwHAfLG.gif)

Irie wrote:

First off, welcome aboard! Is this your first ever toy? If so, could high power be a bit much for a first foray into vibrators? https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/vibrator-finder/ might help you find a few that tickle your fancy. There's a section for powerful vibes I think, and I'm sure people here will have a few good recommendations!

Thank you!

I've played about a bit with things marketed just as massagers so I have some idea what I like. This is just my first actual sex toy haha! Yeah, it's a really useful tool! This site is so great! I was just looking for third and fourth opinions before I invest in something ![](upload://5BDs2y1gm13l2R58ovmAMxyNM3f.gif)

Thanks again!

Hi, if you have experimented with massagers then a clit vibe like this could be good. It's strong, discreet and portable plus you can use in pin point on your clit or for a bit more all over stimulation like you would get with a wand

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33304

NaughtyNerd wrote:

Hi and welcome. I remember that exciting feeling of buying my first toy.

If you want pin point vibration a bullet is the way to go. My favorite is the Desire bullet but the Wevibe Tango is so a massive fan fave
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36366
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30320

If you something that can stimulate a bigger then wands are good
Fifty Shades rechargeable wand
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29578

Lovehoney deluxe main powered wand
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31087

Last but not least...the Doxy
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/brands/doxy/

Thanks this was really helpful!!

What did you guys think of the texture of the we-vibe? And how more powerful would you say the wands were? Anyone tried the mini wands actually?

Thanks so much again! ![](upload://4WyQT1gwKaQJNwhYxrKZ1rOPglF.gif)

Lovehoney - Rebecca wrote:

This was my first ever vibrator - I remember it fondly and would recommend it to anyone who is looking to dabble with sex toys:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=10157

It works with just a push on/off button, it's really discreet, it's waterproof and it's inexpensive, so it ticked all the boxes for me when looking for my first vibrator. The only downside is, I found it difficult to find batteries at the time that fitted it, but we do stock them here at Lovehoney.

This one is very similar (although it has the added bonus of multiple speeds and patterns) and takes an AAA battery, much easier to find:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34002

If you have more money to spend - I also second the recommendations of the Desire Bullet Vibrator and the WeVibe Tango. I also recently acquired a Je Joue Mimi and I absolutely love it.

I actually have the magic on my wishlist! It looks like a good all-rounder for a good price. I've been debating whether to build up in price or to jump in the deep end haha. I'm sure I'll love what I get either way ![](upload://5BDs2y1gm13l2R58ovmAMxyNM3f.gif)

Thank you for the recommendations <3

dem1 wrote:

The LH mini wand! It's amazing. It was my second ever vibrator and I'll never go back!!

Do you quite like the mini's then? I was wondering if they lost some of their power!

Emmbee wrote:

I broke my Doxy! In my defence OH was away at sea...
The lovehoney mains and rechargeable small wands are good.
Lelo for build quality, their bullet vibe looks like lipstick size USB drive, taken that to Gulf countries where want something portable and discrete.
For wands particularly- remember lube. I like sliquid organic, taste and odour free and won't mess up body balance.
Have fun... don't plan on doing much after the postie arrives

Haha I can't believe you broke it! ![](upload://ceipqBTR0sMGMajGRWRbxCi6nYV.gif) That's hilarious!! ![](upload://l9s9e23YKLHpoOzgGVeUkhZGcEr.gif)

Thanks for the recommendation!

NaughtyNerd wrote:

Hi, if you have experimented with massagers then a clit vibe like this could be good. It's strong, discreet and portable plus you can use in pin point on your clit or for a bit more all over stimulation like you would get with a wand

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33304

Thank you!

I was looking at these but the shape was putting me off actually! I know it's supposed to fit nicely in your hand but it looks so awkward! Have you got one?

We bought the Jessica Rabbitt 10 Function slim vibrator a little while ago - it rarely fails to hit the spot first time! Highly recommended. X