What annoys me about sex sites

Well, I'm a fan of live cams and I don't think I'm the only one that has peeves about certain things.
3 examples
The tease: usually a woman, will sit there for hours fully clothed smiling at comments(compliments) made by viewers- with No intention of putting on a show.... You're on a pervy site you're supposed to get neckid!*facepalm*

The offended: insulted by a suggestion or 'crude' comment by viewers... Again you're on a live sex site where perverts roam and you entertain if you have a cam on.

The people that should stick to Facebook: now I'm aware I'm sounding bitchy in this thread, but as pointed out above, we go on these sites to talk sex, entertain or be entertained. Talking about xfactor, Eastenders, your KIDS, what you had for lunch is the last thing I've come to hear about!

I could rant, but I don't like to be a bitch. Just thought I'd vent haha!

I hope I'm not alone in this :/

haha you might want to steer clear of certain threads then if rule number 3 gets on your nerves

jeffngloria wrote:

haha you might want to steer clear of certain threads then if rule number 3 gets on your nerves

Lol was thinking the same. Personally I like the casual banter on here. But if it's just sex talk your after there are plenty of those threads here too ;) xx

xmorningxgloryx wrote:

jeffngloria wrote:

haha you might want to steer clear of certain threads then if rule number 3 gets on your nerves

Lol was thinking the same. Personally I like the casual banter on here. But if it's just sex talk your after there are plenty of those threads here too ;) xx

I agree. Sometimes all people want to do is have a casual banter with others, rather than always talk sex with people they barely know. But, that's what makes the Lovehoney forum so great. There's a mixture of both. There's the Sex Tips & Talk, the Sex Toys, and Off-Topic sections. So, it really depends what sort of chatter you're in the mood for. :)

If you mean those things annoy you on Live Cam sites then fair enough. But, like everyone else has said, be aware that people on here generally talk about everything. You may wish to avoid the Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening thread because that's basically everything you described in rule 3.

I agree with MG, Jeffngloria & Rabbitlover - I love this site because of the friendliness - you can talk about anything any everything and nothing ever crosses any lines.

I always feel very comfortable here and have made lots of lovely online friends. It is so nice that you can talk about personal problems, sexy issues and just have a good old laugh and chat with friends about your daily lives. There are several sex topic specific threads on the LH forums, however If you are looking for 'sex chat/cams' then there are plenty of other sites out there - lol :) xx

I dont view lh forums as a sex site. It just happens that its the forum where we can openly talk about sex and toys and experiences that we have in common. :-)

Oh no, on here I would expect general chats.

It's the sites you go on to watch and talk sex. I just wondered if anyone else felt the same.

This wasn't a good start was it? I look moody and judgmental and sleezy :/ waahhh :(

I assure you I'm not

*puts down shovel*

Me either, I wasn't clear in my rant.

This is why I don't complain. I'm bad at it lol

Hehe bless ya, when browsing live cam sites or porn sites I dont like the endless pop ups that seem to get around the pop up blocker. Also the adverts that encourage you to cheat with people that are in your local area.

ive never watched a live cam show !!!

You mean those EXTREEMLY hot girls willing to meet anyone lol

Urgh! The pop ups annoy me! Especially that noisy one you can never find haha!!

If its your thing and you want to have a nosey go for it :)

His Princess wrote: You mean those EXTREEMLY hot girls willing to meet anyone lol Urgh! The pop ups annoy me! Especially that noisy one you can never find haha!! Yep or those ones from the local area who you might know so please dont give away their secrets? Last thing I want to do is chat away with whoever and find out they are so and so's dad from around the corner lol!!

Hello,

The removing of clothing slowly is a good thing and often gets regulars. Customers are paying for a show that is natural, and not one which is preplanned to be the same everytime. They like the suspense.

Being offended by crude comments also often works in favour. Customers like honesty.

Please remember that not onloy do we have people on here who put on cam shows, but we also have people on here who request the things which you stated annoy you.

There's a wide selection of cam performers out there, not all are the same, it's just reading the profiles, trail and error, and actually taking some control over the show as a viewer too =)

I agree with Nymphomaniac. Also it depends what sex sites your refering to, if its token camera or porn sites fair enough but with other types of sex sites people just like to have something other than sex on forums.

As to the cam thing, its purely personal preference. I go on cam quite alot i dont aim to get naked, its does nothing for me. I prefer to show and a slow tease, leaving something to the imagination. Just because its a sex site doesnt mean as soon as you turn your cam on you have to get naked and entertain, if they want a naked dildo show they can goto a token site or view someone else.

Theres also the factor that if its an ameuter cam site with normal people, some might be lacking confidence to just get nude or even tease, therefore gaining it through sitting there clothed. I know a few ladies who have fantastic figures and cam on sex sites but are way too shy to just get naked x

Token sites again no issue, they have targets before they will give a peek and it's clear that's the way it is.

As for the confidence thing, I completely get that - there's only so much I will do on camera too, and I'm usually dressed up as requested.

I'm purely talking about those on non paid sites. That sit and watch TV.

I'm not attacking anyone, it 'annoys' me in the same way a piece of furnature out of place would. An irrational peeve. I can simply switch to another camera if it bothers me :)

Ok. I see I've come across as offensive and that wasn't my intention.
We all have opinions and we will never have 100% agreement in anything.

I was going to delete this after making myself look silly but I don't know how. So if you're offended please accept my apology.

His Princess I know what you mean. I've been on cam sites and it is so annoying when she fpjust sits there fully clothed. I understand the need to tease etc to earn more but sitting there is not teasing lol

His Princess wrote:

Ok. I see I've come across as offensive and that wasn't my intention.
We all have opinions and we will never have 100% agreement in anything.

I was going to delete this after making myself look silly but I don't know how. So if you're offended please accept my apology.

Don't worry about it hun, like you say everyone has different opinions on things. The world would be a very boring place if we all agreed on everything lol! Hope you keep posting as it's a great forum and the more people that contribute the better xx