Lots of negative things about porn in the other thread - with almost all of which I agree - but let’s have some positive thoughts!
Things I love about erotica on film:
Watching two people making love
Seeing passionate cunnilingus / fellatio
Watching breasts being fondled and suckled
Seeing a cock being stroked, licked and sucked
Loving, intimate, intercourse
The sounds the couple make
Seeing the women climax (no fake moaning please, we can mostly tell what’s real)
Watching the men cum - preferably inside or a sensual stroking or sucking
Cuddling afterwards
Oh, and getting some new ideas for positions and things to try with my beautiful wife
And more!
I hope this post doesn’t get pulled - it’s a real attempt to find the positive things!
There are some films out there that really accentuate the beautiful, positive things about making love! Not sure I’m allowed to mention the places I find sex-positive erotica but they are there…
Finding a vid where you can tell the people in it really care about each other. Just the way they look at each other, or smile and the tiniest haptics of their body language, like the way they touch each other. and not even necessarily the sexy touches, just where they place their hands on the bed or way in which they touch someones arm. Like their precious.
And doing a 180, i have a weakness for watching good vids of slow sensual masturbation. Especially the blokes. Not going to lie, watching some one get lost in the feeling and come apart is just incredibly sexy.
This might sound odd, but in some cases I really admire the “athleticism” of the performers and their ability to go on for so long, in different positions, etc. I know that a combination of editing and performance enhancements for the men are likely the cause for some of that, but it still feels a bit like watching sports to me
And I guess the confidence for the performers to not only bear all on film, but to engage in such intimate acts. That, I think, is the hottest thing.
Don’t worry. This isnt really that kind of place.
Plus, theres plenty of people on here that are into amateur porn. Maybe just not so much the majority of the heavily scripted and produced stuff thats out there.
I have been trying to find sites for ethical porn but I do love seeing homemade amateur videos. I really enjoy seeing people try new things and share that experience. I think sometimes it makes me feel more comfortable knowing other people enjoy the same things I do. And it does help generate new ideas and things to try. I like seeing pleasure in its most raw form.
Rather lovely to see some positives pointed out for porn films and like with many there’s always good and bad things we can focus on but in end porn does make many of us feel great watching it
Watched something the other day (in one of my rougher watches) - a woman was being spitroasted and at one point, she put her hand up and the guy in her mouth instantly pulled out and continued solo until she motioned for him to come back.
I thought it made a pleasant change to show that the sub was still in control, and that with one motion the guy knew to stop and they showed him respecting her wishes on camera.
Hopefully actions like that become more commonplace in porn and normalise respecting your partners wishes/limits for youngsters!
My favourite porn is amateur porn and the best thing about it is seeing the confidence in the performers to show themselves off in the most intimate of ways. Just wish myself and my OH had that sort of confidence!!
@300 it certainly is a beautiful thing but no one wants to see me doing it I love how people have the confidence to share that with everyone without personal insecurities like my own!!
I really enjoy watching porn and it has given me ideas and confidence to try a lot of new things over the years
I prefer amateur but have a soft spot for vintage porn where breasts were all real and it was just a load of fun - as sex should be.
To be honest I prefer reading erotica and exercising the imagination, picturing the scenes and thoses involved, the acts which they are participating in and the noises they would be making. It is quite easy to transpose oneself into the story as either a voyeur or as one of the people involved. There is also the voyeuristic element that a lot of these stories are written in the first person.
We watch porn from time to time. It does get the heat turned up pretty quick. Love how wet it makes my OH. I tell her she is like Niagara Falls. It has taught us things through the years as well. ( positions places and so forth) The older real films are the best.
Where is everyone buying DVD movies today. I’m finding most places are streaming them.
I love how people have the confidence to share that with everyone without personal insecurities like my own!!