So at the start of lock down we were smashing out a heathy 5 times a day. Multiple O’s, toys, anal. Found the LH website and the deliveries were frequent.
So the toys now allow vibrating fun, glass, pegging ( also DP).
Think the next stage is to get some footage of what we do. Pics/Vid.
Anyone else running out of things to try.
What would you want but not sure if you should ask the OH???
I don’t see it as a progression of things to tick off a list. We have lots of toys and lingerie, but we don’t feel any pressure to find something new to do every week. We just enjoy the things we like, and add a variety of different gizmos and outfits to suit our mood. Though I wouldn’t say we were ever doing it 35 times a week, so you maybe operating at a different level.
5 times a day is a lot hehe. When I was younger I could manage that sort of activity but not anymore.
My wife is happy with sex 3-4 times a week and the occasional BJ extra for me.
I read that for men who ejaculate 21 times a month it reduces their chances of prostate cancer.
I shared the screenshots from BBC, dailymail and a few other websites to sure the benefits for cuming 21 times a month so I’m aiming for that this month and putting a little daily line on the calendar for everytime I cum. My wife knows that I will be doing some of those numbers by myself!
I keep typing up emails and lists of things for us to do to each other and with each other and using different sex toys. Sometimes she thinks I’m a crazy horny guy but she’s willing to do it all within reason.
Once I asked about her pegging me but she said that’s she’s not into that all. I wear a butt plug with her sometimes but cam searching for the elusive hands free / P orgasm by myself.
For a few days when she said yes to things on my list I get a bit hung up and look forward to them which can be quite draining so now I’m trying to be a bit more chilled and relaxed and try new things every now and again but not too put to much pressure on it.
A week ago I asked if she would like me to wear a penis sleeve (longer thicker penis) but haven’t had a reply yet but have a few on my watchlist ready to choose if she gives it the go ahead hehe, enjoy!
I also feel that having sex as a list to tick off just pushes you to expect more and more every time until the basics aren’t as fun anymore and you spiral