What to take on a naughty weekend away....

Hello Lovely People.

I am new to the forum so please be gentle with me

So the question is what do I take on a naughty long weekend away. Its not all about the sex, which is extrordinary in its own right, but what can I do to make it special..... any tips, anything I shouldnt forget etc? Anything you can think of?

Thanks in advance for your help

NNS

Massage oil, scented candles. Sexy lingerie.

A sexy smile and a saucy giggle!

Hi NNS,

I'm just trying to remember what my wife and I took with us on such a trip last year. I'm sure that it included:

  • An MP3 player with an assortment of erotic stories, sounds and soothing music
  • Two sets of headphones
  • Several different vibrators
  • Lots of batteries
  • Towels and lube
  • A blindfold
  • Massage oil
  • Bath bombs
  • A flogger
  • Saucy game cards
  • For my wife: sexy dress with luxury lingerie (inc. suspenders and stockings) and killer heels
  • For me: formal suit with saucy underwear, plus posing pouch
  • Cuddly toy... oh, no, that was me!

We did end up using most of it!

maybe a bottle of your favorite alcohol? hotel prices can be extortionate

lube

camera for naughty pictures or for sightseeing.

a few books?

Hi NNS,

I'm just trying to remember what my wife and I took with us on such a trip last year. I'm sure that it included:

  • An MP3 player with an assortment of erotic stories, sounds and soothing music
  • Two sets of headphones
  • Several different vibrators
  • Lots of batteries
  • Towels and lube
  • A blindfold
  • Massage oil
  • Bath bombs
  • A flogger
  • Saucy game cards
  • For my wife: sexy dress with luxury lingerie (inc. suspenders and stockings) and killer heels
  • For me: formal suit with saucy underwear, plus posing pouch
  • Cuddly toy... oh, no, that was me!

We did end up using most of it!

Thats an impressive list

LilMissFrustrated wrote:

Massage oil, scented candles. Sexy lingerie.

A sexy smile and a saucy giggle!

Scented candles are not HIS thing!

However massage oils are a def.... I have never done the lingerie thing before (alway felt to big) but now I am over my own hang up with size I bought this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21036 but not sure what to wear with it, any suggestions?

sweetlove666 wrote:

maybe a bottle of your favorite alcohol? hotel prices can be extortionate

lube

camera for naughty pictures or for sightseeing.

a few books?

Books, books???? I plan on having my eyes staring into his or closed for some zzzz's lol

Lube, got

Camera - Its going but unlikely to be used

naughtynaughtysarah wrote:

LilMissFrustrated wrote:

Massage oil, scented candles. Sexy lingerie.

A sexy smile and a saucy giggle!

Scented candles are not HIS thing!

However massage oils are a def.... I have never done the lingerie thing before (alway felt to big) but now I am over my own hang up with size I bought this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21036 but not sure what to wear with it, any suggestions?

Hi hun I know what you are saying about the candles but they add to the mood for both of you rather than an electric spotlight LOL, but I take your point of view on that.

What colour did you go for re the basque, black or white? Also when you respond re colour please advise what effect you wish to go for eg is he a man who likes demure or whore if you get my gist !!

LMF xx

Thanks LMF

I went for the white

Now.......... he is quite a bit older than I and is a real gent, he is much more of demure than a whore. He is lovely and although I am taking the opportunity for this to be a naughty weekend away and there will be plenty of sex, he is more of the love making kinda man and I want to show him there can still be passion and gentleness but I want to be provacative and sexy and really make him want me, even though I know he already does... Am I making any sense???

NNS x

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11332. Thought of them, a little retro but oh so sexy. Also means you dont have to wear white shoes with your outer clothes. Thought may be too much if you wear white, white and white!! LOL

Not sure what size you are re underwear but I am sure you have your own undies but if not I attach a suggestion.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20733

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21864

Hope this gives you some ideas, if its not yours or indeed his thing, I am sure you will find something suitable. Have a lovely time NNS.

LMF xx

naughtynaughtysarah wrote:

Thats an impressive list

My wife did give me a glare when she saw the size of the suitcase that we needed to pack it all in, but she forgave me later (especially since I was the one doing the carrying!).

naughtynaughtysarah wrote:

He is lovely and although I am taking the opportunity for this to be a naughty weekend away and there will be plenty of sex, he is more of the love making kinda man and I want to show him there can still be passion and gentleness but I want to be provacative and sexy and really make him want me, even though I know he already does... Am I making any sense???

That makes perfect sense to me, and I have a feeling that you'll do an excellent job!

LilMissFrustrated wrote:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11332. Thought of them, a little retro but oh so sexy. Also means you dont have to wear white shoes with your outer clothes. Thought may be too much if you wear white, white and white!! LOL

I'd say that's a great choice! Retro is good, and seamed stockings are very sexy. I bet they'd appeal to NNS's OH.


LilMissFrustrated wrote:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11332. Thought of them, a little retro but oh so sexy. Also means you dont have to wear white shoes with your outer clothes. Thought may be too much if you wear white, white and white!! LOL

I'd say that's a great choice! Retro is good, and seamed stockings are very sexy. I bet they'd appeal to NNS's OH.

I am so glad you approve C H, its good to get a man's perspective to know I was on the right track.

LMF xx

I'm a big fan of the retro (1940s/1950s) "pin up" look -- seamed stockings and associated lingerie. It's elegant, extremely sexy, and can work for any body shape. Whether you're tall or short, slim or curvy, it has something to offer, and can be a big confidence booster.

I persuaded my wife to have some photos taken in this sort of outfit during a professional photo shoot that I arranged for her. She was sceptical at first, but when she put on the outfit and, later, looked at the photos, she had to admit that it looked really great on her. I wasn't able to acknowledge her comment on either occasion, as I was too busy experiencing a variety of physical responses, including my eyes trying to pop out of my head and my tongue reaching for the floor.

naughtynaughtysarah wrote:

have you tried the massage candles...best of both worlds..they smell great and give an amazing massage

LilMissFrustrated wrote:

Massage oil, scented candles. Sexy lingerie.

A sexy smile and a saucy giggle!

Scented candles are not HIS thing!

However massage oils are a def.... I have never done the lingerie thing before (alway felt to big) but now I am over my own hang up with size I bought this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21036 but not sure what to wear with it, any suggestions?