I’ll throw in a +1 for that. I accidentally jizzed up Mrs Chimp’s nose last night.
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Ok so I decided to reclaim what was mine last night and tried my damned hardest to stay poker faced and be the bad ass dom he’s begged for and I’ve tried to be a few times but failed.
I thought that if this last weekend has been a fantasy tick list then let’s check his final box (he wanted a threesome - he got one, he wanted proper DOM - let’s show him!)
Well once again I think the line between fantasy and reality made him realize sometimes fantasies are best left as that!
I’ve got to say I went to town with an incredible outfit including his work tie around my neck, my hair totally gelled back into a ponytail and heavy makeup of a goth doll…
I then used restraints, hot wax, ice, paddles, clamps, whips, pin wheels, feathers, and toys that are incredibly taboo (you can guess). YOU NAME IT I HAD IT- including his leather belt which I decided to add in for effect.
He firstly started giggling which is when I’d usually collapse into giggles also but I just got mean instead and did my best to be just like the damned videos he keeps sending me.
I did the whole selfish bitch thing, I did the bossy bitch thing, I did the humiliating bitch thing (something around my lingerie lol) and I did every possible thing I’ve seen that he says he enjoys from dom style porn.
Turns out he didn’t like not having control one damned bit. Well it’s probably a good thing as whilst I can now role play as bossy bedroom bitch without breaking role Im glad to be off the hook as a dom now as he’s realized it’s just a fantasy. He said it was incredible to see me regain my power and be so forceful but it was actually terrifying also and not in a sexy way.
One thing is for SURE if he were to tell a friend what he’s done this last week they would call bullshit on him. He’s a very lucky man and if he thinks otherwise I’d like to see him try and find the opportunities and experiences he’s had this last week elsewhere …
Personally I’m starting to accept vanilla is possibly the best ice cream flavour anyhow because it always works in a cone with a flake, right?
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That’s so funny lol
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You can do interesting things with Flakes @FortySomethingWife 
Seriously though, I love this as a response, and I hope he’s learnt a valuable lesson there.
But more importantly, well done you for getting yourself up and ready for that. I’ve been a bit worried, but that brought a smile to my face. 
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Well, I highly doubt he’s going to run off with anyone else (if he did he’d be a fool) and I could either sit and mope about my own insecurities or do what I would back in the days when I was a teenager in the middle of a bad break up…
Put my big girl knickers on, slap a load of makeup on and fake it till I make it.
I’ve got to share one of the lines I said last night @KinkyMira and must admit (cringe) I felt bloody good saying it whist walking around the bed lol “DONT F*#K WITH ME IM A BITCH ON FIRE” at which point I literally poured hot wax all over him LOL
He looked terrified whereas I didn’t even flinch as in my head it was a bit of payback!
Guess I can lounge around in my PJs tonight and watch trash TV (my personal fantasy) hehe - besides he’s got a carpet to vacuum and a shower to clean out because I sure as hell ain’t doing it.
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Have I had my confidence knocked ? Omg yes…
Will I let it break me ? HELL NO!
Bring on the PJs, snacks and some really cheesy TV
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Be careful what you wish for hehehe
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Oh I can so imagine you saying so. I’m wetting myself here hun, that is so funny. Those big girl knickers did you proud. I can just imagine him annoying you in a few weeks and all you do is let him “catch you” melting some wax…
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Like something from the Craft … I’ll just glare at him and say “you rubbing my lamp because that damned Genie might be a real arsehole”
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I fkn LOVE this 
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Awww thanks - I try !
Thank you to everyone on this amazing community for being so supportive of late. Seriously, without you guys I wouldn’t be quite so strong.
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You are one hell of a woman @FortySomethingWife your man is certainly very lucky. You are certainly not vanilla and have my greatest respect. 
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I was quite a bitch to be fair - telling him to see how he liked deepthroating was maybe a step too far along with actually using the belt when he choked… that and seeing how he likes g strings for comfort (he didnt).
I turned the tables around completely and the balls (tee hee) were all in my court and I don’t think he liked it!
Funny really, I love being paddled and restrained yet he found it painful and scary. Whose the hard ass now?
Yeh I think I’ve made my point ! Anyhow I can now relax and enjoy comfy PJs and a brew for a change. If he wants to complain I will have my candles at the ready ! God - this could really work in my favour, there’s so many jobs that need doing around the house … (I’m kidding, or am I?)
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I’m wondering if, after that threesome adventure, he thought his balls were up for the chop there…
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I wasn’t best impressed with his behavior it’s fair to say given that we’d chatted about certain things beforehand that I’d said a firm NO to and he went ahead and did anyhow…
But it’s done now and we will move on from it.
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Maybe there will be a happy medium in there 
Definitely sounds like you deserve the R&R!
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Gelled back hair, now that is going the extra mile, well impressed!!
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You are one hell of a woman @FortySomethingWife your man is certainly very lucky. You are certainly not vanilla and have my greatest respect.
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Well done @FortySomethingWife, it certainly sounds like you have reclaimed the trousers in your household and had a lot of fun doing it. You certainly sound like a keeper and he would be a fool to go elsewhere. Your right though, if he was to tell anyone about the last week they would probably call BS but somehow it sounds very real coming from you. Now go and enjoy that trashy TV, you deserve it 
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Once my working week is done I plan to do just that. I’ve got a week booked off in August and my plan is to hit the sofa and claim the TV remote!
We are also hoping to go away for some of those days so that’ll be nice too.
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