I used to hear "talk to her " a lot , when I was with my ex . I tried , I even tried to persuade her to come to “Relate” . It did no good . I guess it’s just a fact of life that ,edited by mod
I’m approaching the final phase of life anyway , so it wont bother me much longer . Ive made sure that she’ll be financially sound when ive gone
What does this mean? Are you ok?
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Im fine , I promise, don’t worry, I have no intention of doing “something silly” it’s just that being in one sexless marriage, now in another ( we have some , but not much) makes me wonder what the point of it all is ?
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I know people say that sex isn’t everything in a relationship and its not but it is a huge part of feeling good about yourself and having your needs met. I’m sorry that its tough for you.
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On point with that reply ! Been a long long time since my wife was active and I was pretty crushed early on . I even threw away almost all sex toys . Then I decided to become a master at DIY sex . I am happy to report I self pleasure in many ways and have expanded what I do exstensivly . In my dreams I could have the wife involved once or twice a year !
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Me and girlfriend finally tried it a few weeks ago, best experience we’ve had, so hot, hooking up with a different girl this weekend we can’t wait
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When we go away on Friday, our accommodation has a balcony. So there’s a lot of fantasies and different scenarios going around my head, of what we can do in the dark 
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Why the dark
Cos I’m pretty sure we’ll get kicked out if we’re seen doing anything during the day 
we’re staying at Butlin’s, and our accommodation is a 2 story chalet and there’s others around too, their situated around a lake. During the day it’s obvious what we’ll be doing.
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Fair comment thought it may have been abroad
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Maybe one year 
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Fair play for A) trying it
B) jumping in full on/embracing it
&
C) proving a point
I will say, for me, my mrs and i done something like this, and she dressed up etc and i was more into the dress up than her doing anything else that happened that night lol
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The pjs snacks and cheesy TV sounds like a good fantasy. Definitely going to be trying that on the weekend 
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Nothing major, just would like my wife to initiate and take control
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Not my all time fantasy but it is today’s fantasy and that is to get in from work today get myself bathed shaven top and bottom relaxed and go into bedroom where my OH is lying on the bed with her thigh high boots on elbow length satin or latex gloves with her legs bent at the knees one hand holding a thin cigar and wearing her harness with her 8” girly cock attached and stroking it oh and I forgot to mention her lips done with as she calls it sluttiest red lipstick
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@TPTS yeah i know that feeling 
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Might be too graphic , WARNING ! My fantasy is to have a month where everybody that depends on me mentally and financially takes care of themselves and their problems . I could relax and have a restful month of playing in whatever manner sexually I could think of . Day after day of laying in the sun and going for motorcycle rides and maybe even use my motorhome a few times . Even have a little time for some fishing . Boy , am I a dreamer .
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Sounds idyllic.
I take there’s no chance of that happening
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Current fantasy is a MMF, where the female introduces me to playing with a guy for the first time, while enjoying watching us.
She has a strapon to use on me while I am sucking cock for the first time and later, we return the favour on her…
Phew - tissue to Larry’s table please…
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