What's your fantasy?

I wasn’t best impressed with his behavior it’s fair to say given that we’d chatted about certain things beforehand that I’d said a firm NO to and he went ahead and did anyhow…
But it’s done now and we will move on from it.

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Maybe there will be a happy medium in there :joy:

Definitely sounds like you deserve the R&R!

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Gelled back hair, now that is going the extra mile, well impressed!!

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You are one hell of a woman @ThirtySomethingWife your man is certainly very lucky. You are certainly not vanilla and have my greatest respect. :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Well done @ThirtySomethingWife, it certainly sounds like you have reclaimed the trousers in your household and had a lot of fun doing it. You certainly sound like a keeper and he would be a fool to go elsewhere. Your right though, if he was to tell anyone about the last week they would probably call BS but somehow it sounds very real coming from you. Now go and enjoy that trashy TV, you deserve it :clap:

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Once my working week is done I plan to do just that. I’ve got a week booked off in August and my plan is to hit the sofa and claim the TV remote!
We are also hoping to go away for some of those days so that’ll be nice too.

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I say go for it. Anything that will motivate a husband to do his chores is a valuable asset.

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I have lots of specific fantasies, but they all come down to one underlying one - to have a loving playmate who likes to play the Dom in BDSM games, but is perfectly matched to me in how far he wants to go with it. That would be heaven. Not likely to happen though, especially in the time of Covid.

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It has been a long time since my wife was active and I only managed to get her to be the dominate one a handful of times . We talked about limits way ahead of time . Neither of us are into pain so that was easy . But OMG , did I enjoy being tied up and treated like I was a sex toy she bought . After watching Build a sex room , she did seemed to guardedly like some things that have been out of her comfort zone . I get a glimmer of hope from her every so often about rejoining our sex life . In the meantime my fantasies keep my man bits plumbing working along with using my selection of anal toys so I am ready to be mounted at a moments notice . I just thought I should be doing tongue exersices so I will be more capable at eating pussy too .

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I have a few but my OH like to fulfill them when they are possible which she has on the last three occasions me getting pegged by someone else her dressing up in business suit with skirt wearing her strapon while smoking a thin cigar and letting me watch her having lesbian sex wonder if she will fulfill my next one which is for me to dp her whilst she eats pussy of our friend who helped peg me with her watching

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All my fantasies lately involve spanking with a belt, needle play, knife play, blood play and watersports.
We’re in the talking it all through stage and giving each other the grrrrs :smiling_imp:

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Hehe be warned belts leave marks … I got carried away with my husbands lol

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The marks are happy side effects :smiling_imp:

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I used to hear "talk to her " a lot , when I was with my ex . I tried , I even tried to persuade her to come to “Relate” . It did no good . I guess it’s just a fact of life that ,edited by mod
I’m approaching the final phase of life anyway , so it wont bother me much longer . Ive made sure that she’ll be financially sound when ive gone

What does this mean? Are you ok?

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Im fine , I promise, don’t worry, I have no intention of doing “something silly” it’s just that being in one sexless marriage, now in another ( we have some , but not much) makes me wonder what the point of it all is ?

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I know people say that sex isn’t everything in a relationship and its not but it is a huge part of feeling good about yourself and having your needs met. I’m sorry that its tough for you.

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The point of it for me is to learn the lesson of how to get free of dependency on others and enjoy my own body and mind. :smiling_face:

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On point with that reply ! Been a long long time since my wife was active and I was pretty crushed early on . I even threw away almost all sex toys . Then I decided to become a master at DIY sex . I am happy to report I self pleasure in many ways and have expanded what I do exstensivly . In my dreams I could have the wife involved once or twice a year !

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Me and girlfriend finally tried it a few weeks ago, best experience we’ve had, so hot, hooking up with a different girl this weekend we can’t wait

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