We had a talk the other day about moving to a slightly more female led relationship in which she makes all the decisions about our sexual activities and I am no longer allowed to instigate or even suggest anything physical.
In practice this means that I get up first, put on my nipple clamps and chains, take the drinks back to bed and kneel,hands on thighs exposing myself to her. She gets to toy with my clamps, chains and cage while she decides what she wants to do to me or what she wants me to do to her.
This morning she kept me kneeling but cuffed my wrists behind my back, fitted my big inflatable butt plug and kept pumping till I was in exquisite discomfort then started using the flickering tongue vibrator on my glans through the bars in my cage.
45 minutes later she stopped. By this time I was a quivering wreck and her work was done.
Last night, laying on the bed watching TV. He gets in behind me, lubes up my ass and inserts himself, slow and passionate playing with my nipple’s gently bringing me to orgasm (all clean) move to hard press, inserting himself deeply, slow thrusting bringing me to another orgasm, he then goes harder and faster, and just as I’m about to orgasm again he finishes off deep inside me
Knelt on the bed, hands on thighs, slave collar chained to my cock cage. She spent a long time stroking, squeezing and fondling me. For some reason today I was hypersensitive and close to coming for the entire session but she just kept going even though I begged her to stop. I managed to hold back but my jaw aches through gritting my teeth.
Last night; a lot of routine bedtime sex in our house this week (missionary, we both get an O and then to sleep). Wife is ovulating this week, so everything’s feeling so good, but some different things with kiddos leaving us pretty beat by bedtime, but she’s promised she’s in the mood for some more extended or adventurous play this weekend while the hormones are flowing.
She warned me last night that she wanted to watch me masturbate using my Fleshlight Quickshot so when I brought the hot drinks up to bed I was wearing a butt plug and my nipple chains but instead of my chastity cage I was wearing my steel triple cock and balls ring so that I had access to my penis.
So did she though and she spent quite a while just stroking me very slowly and very gently to keep me hard while I knelt in my position. Finally she handed me the sleeve and told me to stroke myself while she used the wand on her clitoris.
I could tell that she was deliberately holding back and she expected me to do the same. Eventually she started to build up to a very intense orgasm and told me to come when she did. Surprisingly I managed it and we both came very hard.
I imagine that will be my last orgasm till Christmas at least.
Last night we went to bed early to have a little more time. She started with her Womanizer and 7" lifelike lover pink marble dildo and I worked my prostate massager in. After we’d played for a while there, I slid into my 2 Extra Inches extender sleeve and she got on top cowgirl still with the Womanizer until we both came.
Hoping for another good, long romp this weekend! It’s been way too long since I strapped her down and had my way fully.
Last night started with oral each to each other then I penetrated her piv then she asked me more liked begged me to put in in her ass after she climaxed was my turn started rimming me then strapped on her dildo and pegged me don’t think I had ever cum so hard and OH was convinced I came out of my ass also
Saturday morning for us, our usual oral, dildo and wand for her to x2 orgasms, followed by oral for me before finishing off in PIV with her on top.
Nothing Sunday which is becoming more normal for us now as we have a golden hour on Monday nights with both teens working at the same time, usually which can lead to more unrestricted sex, but alas, her period arrived this morning (mon morning) so thats out.
We did talk a bit on the weekend about the currently unused chastity cages, she said I should just pick 1 or 2 favourites and then dispose of the others (have 4), this indicates that she is still open to using them occasionally, to what degree though I’m not sure.
As her period arrived and following our discussion, I put on a cage today and will join her in her monthly. Will see where to after that.
Earlier today I had a bit of a breakdown at breakfast when we were out with one of the OH’s grandmas as it really hit me this will be the first time I’ve ever not seen my family at Christmas (full on tears streaming with the staff all looking over at me ), so once we got back home we cuddled for around 2 hours before moving to cuddling in bed Once he knew I was feeling better he commented on naked Sunday, which I obliged to He definitely wanted to focus on me so lots of clit play in spooning position with occasional strokes for him (difficult as it was crushed between us ) Finally PIV in spooning so he could keep focusing on my clit, and I didn’t need lube for the first time in forever Clit started to burn a bit after a while so I grabbed my doxy (forgot to turn the switch on so he had to do it ) and he finished about a minute before me Next time the wand is definitely getting brought out earlier
Yesterday afternoon: I sent the wife home after church for a nap while I stayed until kids activities were done. When I finally got home she told me she’d masturbated before her nap and needed to be punished.
I instructed her to dress in her new wet look open cup teddy while I got out the under-bed restraints and the toy box. I applied her butt plug, delivered a few lashes with our suede flogger, then tied her down. Her O number one came from oral with an interior assist from the Romp Beat vibe. Her O number two was a long, slow play with her Womanizer Pro40 and Lifelike Lover Luxe 7" and it was an exorcism level event. I thought I broke her. After I finished in her mouth, she was thoroughly punished and I unbound her and we had some good aftercare snuggles.
Last night. The wife wanted a back rub to send her to sleep but after half an hour of massaging her back, shoulders and neck she still wasn’t nodding off, so we decided an orgasm would be the best way to send her off to the land of nod. So in I slipped.
Lately, when my husband wants a blow job, he’ll put on one of his thongs and sit by me (and play video games until I say something), which is actually making me really happy because I think this is his way of trying hard to initiate
Tonight he put on his blue satin thong and sat next to me on the bed. I asked, are you wanting a blow job? and he said, yes. I was also horny, but feeling kinda lazy, so I got my bullet vibe for myself, rolled on my side and stuck my tongue out for him to get himself a little diy oral
playing with my nipple’s gently bringing me to orgasm (all clean) move to hard press, inserting himself deeply, slow thrusting bringing me to another orgasm, he then goes harder and faster, and just as I’m about to orgasm again he finishes off deep inside me 
I had a bit of a breakdown at breakfast when we were out with one of the OH’s grandmas as it really hit me this will be the first time I’ve ever not seen my family at Christmas (full on tears streaming with the staff all looking over at me 
), so once we got back home we cuddled for around 2 hours before moving to cuddling in bed 
Once he knew I was feeling better he commented on naked Sunday, which I obliged to 
He definitely wanted to focus on me so lots of clit play in spooning position with occasional strokes for him (difficult as it was crushed between us 
) 
Clit started to burn a bit after a while so I grabbed my doxy (forgot to turn the switch on so he had to do it 
