Started off during early in the day, Mrs Sen had a poor nights sleep the night before. I had decided yesterday morning to put on one of my cages for the day, nothing in it just felt like wearing it. During the day I sent a text asking if an external and internal massage might help her sleep better, she responded positively. I then mentioned that I had “my armour on”, she commented about the length of the good bye kiss that morning. A bit more text banter, but that was it.
Went to the bedroom slightly earlier than normal where we both undressed. I inserted the fifty shades of grey vibrating love egg in her, turned it on and proceeded with a full body massage on her back, bum and back of legs. I took the opportunity to also flick my tongue over her anus just to tease, this had her moaning and squirming.
Turned her over and proceeded to massage her front, ofcourse taking time on her breasts and nipples but also her arms and legs.
Removed the egg then brought her as close to orgasm as she has been with just my tongue (she need internal stim) and then proceeded to use a LH lifelike dildo with Mantric wand to bring her to a couple of quite intense orgasms.
I remained caged and aside from a quick fondle by her, there was no penis stimulation for me. Left me incredibly horny and took some time before the cage discomfort subsided.
Checked in this morning, she said she slept like the dead. Mission successful!
I slept in the cage (first time in a while) and only took it off briefly for shower today. Will see how much she wants to keep going with me caged.
Last night, my shoulder had playing me up so he said lay down and I’ll massage it, it felt so good. I then felt something cold on my bum, then he inserted my bum and went ball’s deep and just went for it and rode me hard, it must of been the angle I was at, cos the orgasm’s he was giving me, he then started to spank me really hard leaving me red raw, he moved to my vagina, half hanging off the bed with my bum slightly raised and he just went for it hard, giving me multiple orgasm’s which spurred him on to cum
And this morning, he said to me want to play before I have to go to work, be rude not to
About half hour ago. I woke up feeling really horny, hubby was already up, so had a play with my nipple suckers until nipples were enlarged, then went and sat on his lap and got him to suck and bite my nipples, he was soon hard, so lowered myself onto him and rode him hard whilst he was pinching and pulling my nipples, until we both came!!! To keep nipples erect he has put elastic bands around them and promised some more fun later.
Back up to bed with the hot drinks at 9.00. Her first orgasm, as usual, was from my fingers to get her relaxed and in the mood then she took over and I watched and cuddled as she masturbate with her wand. Today, for some reason, she needed very little resting time between orgasms and just kept coming and coming.
Apparently I’m getting pegged over the sink in the kitchen this afternoon.
First I knelt down and took the dildo in my mouth for a while then I lubed it up, bent over and she eased into me. It’s such a wonderful feeling. She’s experienced enough now that she’s no longer worried about hurting me and she knows exactly what I like. She starts off with slow deep thrusts and gradually builds up the intensity until I’m right on the edge of an orgasm. She hasn’t let me come through pegging for a long time though. She knows it leaves me shaking, shuddering, desperate for more and totally submissive.
I had the most delicious sex this evening. We shared a bath together and he shaved me, then he took me to the bedroom, told me to lie on my front and put my butt in the air. He went to town on me with his tongue then we had some lovely deep doggy sex until we both came.
Last night. First a BJ to completion, was teasing him a bit, licking and sucking. Ended up with him with hand fulls of my hair holding my head while he thrusted up. Then had a cwtch.
I crawled on hands and knees to the end of the bed to check my phone.
He came up behind me and gently slipped himself in. I knew he wouldn’t cum again so I had as much as I wanted before we went and cwtched in again. Not a word spoken by either of us.
She had me tied down like a starfish using the under bed restraints then put on the nipple clamps and connected them to my cock cage using a chain. Finally she inserted a vibrating inflatable butt plug into me and blew it up till it felt like a football up there.
When she was happy with the amount of squirming I was doing she licked and stroked me through the cage till I was on edge then stopped, took out her wand, and masturbated to orgasm while I watched. When she’d finished she put the wand on my cage and edged me again. No orgasm for me though.
A couple days ago, woke up around 2:30am to him paying a lot of attention to my clitoris, fondling my boobs and nipples too.
Was the best way to be woken! He spent quite some time caressing my clit and fingering my butt- an absolute winner for me. He was so gentle and loving (makes a change as we’re usually hard/spanking/rough sex orientated), he really enjoyed my body.
Naturally I returned the good-deed and gave him a slow, sensual blow job. He loves it when I deep throat him and teabag him too so I went all out
I then jumped on top and rode him til we both came again. He was very keen to get a bit rougher so lots of nipple pulling and nipple spanking he was also grabbing my neck and gripping tightly Short snooze before it was time for work
It has been and still is! I’m still with her but it’s pointless really! When I’m home she’s at work and vise versa! That’s why I’ve taken up exploring myself with dildos and things recently and last night I took myself off to watch a couple at it
@SteelA1 so sorry to read that. Must make things really difficult to deal with- especially when you don’t see each other! Any chance of that changing anytime in the future? Do you get any time together?
My husband hates it when I’m at work but he’s home. He keeps trying to persuade me to give up my job financially we’d be just fine but I like my job!! He would love me to be a housewife and be on tap for his wants and needs so I can empathise slightly with the conflicting shift patterns. It makes things hard for us and we are in a very loving and giving/receiving sexual relationship.
Must be 100xs harder when there is something missing xx
Her job pays so bad and for so many hours! I work 6 days a week religiously, always have and I love my job! If I did every Sunday too which I’m happy too I’d earn half her months wages just for the 4 Sunday’s a month! She won’t quit though as she loves it! Alt hid be working 7 days a week if still see more of her than I do now! I’ve never physically cheated on her but have had the chance too on a few occasions! I know what I did lastnight wasn’t right but I’m seeing it as watching a live porno she did txt me the other day while I was at work asking if we should split up! Might be time It’s her who’s stopped all the sex too not me! What will be will be I suppose @Delightful87 thank you xx
@SteelA1 would she consider reducing her hours maybe? Have you spoken to her about any of this? I know that if my husband was to say to me it was really affecting him and he was really unhappy etc then I would seriously consider it.
Has this been going on for a while? Have you spoken with her about the lack of sex life previously? Do you still want to be with her? Do you still find her attractive (physically and mentally)?
Relationships are so hard, I don’t think anyone can say things are always smooth in every relationship. We all have to work at these things.
That said; if it’s time to walk away, it’s time to walk away. You cannot spend your life hoping/wishing/waiting. You only get one life x
Yes I’ve tried bringing it up, she just makes an argument out of it every time! Saying what about her feelings this that and the other! I’ve said I’m not just trying to talk about me but both of us! Baring in mind we’ve not had sex in “approximately” 5 years 4 months 12 days 21hrs and 12 minutes last time I brought up the sex part of things was about 6 months ago and her response was “is that all you ever think about”! I feel I can’t win!
But yes she’s proper easy on the eye, fine body! Well toned all over very pretty in the face! I think I need a less attractive lady who’s a little crazy my ex was super horny at all times! She was just too crazy though xx
@SteelA1 how long have you been together? Are there any hormonal issues that could be going on for her?
That is quite an accurate ‘approximation’ and quite a substantial period of time too
Have you tried the usual stuff- helping with the housework/family life etc. Buying her some flowers/chocolate/sausage rolls (Whatever floats her boat ) running her a nice bubble bath for when she gets in or leaving some new luxurious bubble bath/shower gel/body butter on the kitchen table for her? Finding little ways to show you appreciate her?
It’s so hard when the lines of communication are cut down though.
Have you tried emailing her instead? Maybe she doesn’t want to talk face-to-face? Maybe it’s too awkward for her?
Crazy does help, I’m certainly a little crazy which is why my husband loves me
I was joking about the approximation, I just know it’s been roughly 5 years! Been with her 13years but we actually went to school together then didn’t see each other for years until bumping into each other!
Yes I’ve tried all those things many times but kinda stopped bothering now as it’s never appreciated and I just get accused of trying to get into her pants so to speak
I know; hence the laughing faces approximately 5yrs is a long time though.
If I were you I would compose an email/letter over a few weeks. I’d highlight how I feel, how I still find her attractive and enjoy her company etc but part of all of this is the sexual connection you once had. Explain how you loved the early days and highlight some of the good times you shared, how it made you feel and how it makes you feel looking back on those times.
Explain that you miss the feel of her skin next to yours, her lips on your lips, your hands around her waist etc etc
Tell her how it makes you feel that you try to do nice things (and list them) but that you feel unappreciated and unwanted.
When my husband highlighted how he felt when we had a lull it really hit home with me. I realised it wasn’t all about me and it wasn’t all about sex.
Luckily for him things changed and we work together on our sex life now.
Such a shame! You seem like a lovely guy but under appreciated for sure x
he was also grabbing my neck and gripping tightly 
financially we’d be just fine but I like my job!! He would love me to be a housewife and be on tap for his wants and needs 
so I can empathise slightly with the conflicting shift patterns. It makes things hard for us and we are in a very loving and giving/receiving sexual relationship.
she did txt me the other day while I was at work asking if we should split up! Might be time 
It’s her who’s stopped all the sex too not me! What will be will be I suppose 
xx
my ex was super horny at all times! She was just too crazy though 
which is why my husband loves me