Where to look?

I'm at aloss. I feel ready to start looking for anew partner but do not know where to start.

When i first started looking ,and found,my ex I had no idea about my kinks in the bedroom but know I do I don;t think I could return to just vanilla sex all the time.

So I need to look for someone who is the top to my bototm,as well as having conecctions on every other level too. Not an easy task.

so can anyone give me any advice as to where to look? and I mena more in terms of online sites,veyr little cash to go travelling,sadly.

Hi there:)

Fetlife is a fantastic place to start, like a facebook for kinksters and also a dating site. www.Fetlife.com

also try collar me which is specifically a site for meeting others into your kink. www.collarme.com

hope this helps

Thanks I will most certianly have a look.