I'm a straight guy but have recently been more and more keen to try something new, and have been wanting to try something with a guy! Before I do this, I want to buy a toy and warm myself up and prepare myself for it, but I have no idea what kind of toy I should be looking at...
I've been looking at the Rocks Off Naughty Boy which looks like a lot of fun, but am unsure whether maybe something more realistic would be a better way to go. What would you recommend and why? Remember I'm very new to anal play bar the occasional finger or two...
Anal beads are fantastic for beginners as they aren't big but produce very pleasurable sensations and get you used to feeling something up there. Butt plugs can get you used to size and are progressional. There are quite a few butt plugs in the sale ranging from small to large. I would not recommend starting with a dildo (obviously!) You could however try an anal vibrator as they can be thinner. Personally I would get some jumbo Thai jelly beads and a couple of butt plugs in different sizes. I swear by anal lubricants as most of them have ingredients to help the muscles to relax and the lube lasts longer without needing to be reapplied. There are a lot of other threads on anal sex, which you may want to have a read of for other ideas. Hope that helps x
Another point I think is important is not to use numbing lubes for anal play. It really doesn't hurt if you relax, use enough lube and take it slow at first so for one thing they're not necessary! Pain has a purpose: it's you're body's damage warning system, you need to listen to it so that you're not causing harm. Another point is that anal play, when done right, feels nice, you don't wanna spoil the fun and numb the sensations, surely?!
Wow, thank you so much for the recommendations! I must agree, I don't think numbing lubes should be used for anal play... I've used a number of different lubes in the past when using my fingers and i've never had a problem if i'm relaxed :)
KittyPurry, I do like the look of the second product you recommended! I definitely want to experience prostate massage as opposed to just having something inside me, if that makes sense? From what I've read and heard from people, orgasms from prostate massage can be amazing! I must admit I am very new to this though, so any pointers anyone can give me would be much appreciated!
Thanks again, any other recommendations are more than welcome :)
- There's lots of advice on the love honey forum if you look for prostate using the search function you should find some info to help you.
- There's also a fair bit on the forum for the company that make the second toy I linked you to, Aneros: http://www.aneros.com/forum/index.php
- You might also want to have a look at Lady Lubyanka's guide to prostate milking which has LOTS of information in it: http://ladylubyanka.wordpress.com/prostate-milking/
Hello Martin. I can definitely recommend the Aneros MGX. Just check out all the good reviews. Prostrate stimulation can take months to achieve but is well worth it, it is more of a mental exercise than a bodily one I would say. If you're up for the possible hard slog then set the precedent! SG69
Thanks for the advice... I've just round round to reading your review of the Aneros MGX - it sounds absolutely amazing, with some practice obviously! I'm ready to buy now but still quite unsure of what I want to buy. The Aneros MGX looks very good but I'm thinking maybe something with more of a texture or a little softer would be more pleasurable as a first toy.
Any other recommendations anyone? I'm open to looking at anything that will give me a good sensation so please keep your ideas coming :)