@batjamboree . Firstly , its very refreshing to hear someone with such an open minded relationship with their children, that they can discuss this type of thing freely. Well done to you.
I think younger guys might feel it questions their ability to satisfy their partner.
It was actually me who bought my wifes first vibrator. We were married with kids by then.
When i was in early 20’s access to sex toys was far more difficult, so probably fewer women had them…( i absent mindedly used a competitor* mentioning their parties…sorry Brenna ) opened up the sex toy market.
We use a dildo (smaller than my penis) on both of us. I like it up my butt. I use it on her butt too a little. We both like the beads in our butts - great for stimulation before anal and during piv. Beads are good during oral - when she’s sucking my penis.
I feel like i was kinda of afraid of them at first. I am a 20Yr old virgin who was very sceptical about ordering there first sex toys. After my first purchase however, my collection kept increasing and still does haha.
I was always worried about all of it gettig found, which was a big reason why i originally didnt want to get them, however one day i believe it got found as i noticed my box with one of my cock rings had been moved. Since then ive not been bothered!
Im still kinda afraid of branching out into certain sex toys. I would love to get something like a flesh light or thruster, but i feel like because ive not had sex before it might ruin the experience
For what it’s worth: I don’t think a fleshlight feels anything like the real thing. They’re really good, a lot of fun, but there’s so much more to sex than just a penis in somewhere nice wet and warm. Give them a go, but like all masturbating don’t get addicted.
It is probably because historically we think of sex toys being things women use. My wife has some toys which I love her to use but I don’t have any. Any ideas of a good toy for a man to use?
There are as many answers to that as there are people in the world. The easiest answer is to browse LH (or your nearest online equivalent) and see what tickles your fancy.