My wife and I enjoy watching porn. My good lady is more into lesbian porn, as in alot of straight porn it is all about the man getting off and fake orgasm noises. Also I know for a fact that she gets off on it, in a big way. I too feel the same, but I have an interest of my own.
I for many years have been bi curious, my wife knows that before we got together I thought of men whilst masturbating. The thing is I still do. Although lesbian porn is great, there is not enough men involved. I enjoy watching mmf porn and I get off on it. However, although I am one who likes to 'talk' about how I feel. I find it hard to bring this up with her. As I am scared she will feel that I don't find her attractive, or that I'd want to have mmf experience ( which the fantasy is more appealng than the act of doing). Well i suppose I jut don't want her to be uncomfortable about it, but I do really want her to know, so maybe we could watch it together and it be part of our sexual relationship. HELP!!!!
Has she specifically said that she doesn't like MMF porn or is it just you worrying about telling her? Had you said you wanted to watch gay porn (while there's nothing wrong with that) there might be more of an issue, but I think really it's something you've just gotta get up and do. Nothing changes if you don't do something about it.
I personally prefer watching lesbian porn because I can relate more to women getting pleasured, I can stimulate the appropriate bits while they get the same bits stimulated if the mood takes me, which I can't do while watching men get off.
Hi there,
From the title I assumed your wife had expressly said that she didn't approve of mmf porn but once I'd read the main post it seems you haven't actually asked her! If she knows that you were/are bicurious and likes lesbian porn herself...I don't think it's too much of a stretch to assume she'd be OK with mmf porn. Unless there's a specific reason you think she wouldn't like it?
The fact that she likes lesbian porn that focuses on the woman's pleasure suggests to me that some mmf porn would definately not appeal to her personally. From the bits I've seen it can look a bit like two guys ganging up and using a woman, it just seems a bit rough and uncomfortable to watch. I'm sure there are better examples out there where it's more about mutual pleasure between all three parties or maybe two guys working in tandem to pleasure a woman. This sort of thing might be a good choice for both of you, satisfying your fantasies about men and her interest in the female's enjoyment.
I'm gay (with the exception of my partner) and personally I don't like mmf porn but I wouldn't mind if my partner did, it's only a fantasy after all!
I suggest just talking to her, explain it's a fantasy that you'd like to share with her but not actually experience. Ask if she'd like to watch some (carefully chosen) mmf porn and explain she can switch it off anytime if she doesn't like it. If you're honest, open, considerate, reassuring and reasonable about these thing I don't think you can go far wrong.
xxKPxx
Thank you for advice it has been helpful. I never thought of getting some 'carefully selected' mmf porn. I was just focusing on the idea of man on man, and that what is concerning me. Whereas by getting a film which involves the woman more than a high involvement in the men may help the issue.
Thank you, for your help and support. I'll keep you informed. Xxxx
I think KP hit the nail on the head, if many people don't like MMF porn it's because alot of it is just like the porn your wife hates, US college type stuff with random high fives!
If you want her to know then tell her. She enjoys lesbian porn so may just enjoy MMF porn, you will only find out by asking! If you are worried about her feeling worried about how attractive you find her then you don't explicitly have to mention it's the men you would enjoy watching until she is more comfortable.
Talk to her and good luck.
boris wrote:
Thank you for advice it has been helpful. I never thought of getting some 'carefully selected' mmf porn. I was just focusing on the idea of man on man, and that what is concerning me. Whereas by getting a film which involves the woman more than a high involvement in the men may help the issue.
Thank you, for your help and support. I'll keep you informed. Xxxx
Yep. You can get MMF porn that is about the woman's fun, quite a few ladies would love to have an extra cock/tongue/pair of hands!
boris wrote:
Although lesbian porn is great, there is not enough men involved.
This has to be a contender for the Best. Line. Ever!
Boris, you made my day! External Media
I must be one of the lucky ones then because my wife enjoys watching MMF porn with me. In fact she is perfectly happy about me being bi. The only thing she doesnt like to see in MMF porn is the guys kissing and it is not something I am into either.
There are some good MMF porn films in which the lady is the centre of attention and is not "used" as in so many porn films. (hope that makes sense lol)
So any ideas on names of films or studios which are good for introducing to my good lady to mmf?
Mr monster I am glad I made you day. Always pleased to be able to please.
I don't know any in particular but perhaps it worth looking at some female produced porn? There are likely women who have produced MMF porn because it's a fantasy.
Thanks WandA, I'll try and track some down. If I'm lucky I'll let you know. X
boris wrote:
Thanks WandA, I'll try and track some down. If I'm lucky I'll let you know. X
Maybe there is inspiration in these threads boris:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/36730-girls-and-erotica-porn/