Hi everyone, it’s been a while as I’ve been so busy.
So my wife’s libido has all but vanished now, sex is once a year maybe. But out of nowhere she said she wants me to experience the best orgasm ever, my mind was racing and then she mentioned pegging me! She has watched a couple on pornhub “Lady piper” I had a watch with her and the wife in the video looks so gorgeous and reminds me of my wife.
The only problem is I’ve never thought about anything like that and don’t really know about it we have never even talked about anal sex before for either of us, is it as good as what you read? Obviously everyone has different opinions. What’s the best steps? Any advice and experiences would be appreciated. (Within forum rules)
Start small with plenty of lube. It’s a wonderful thing in terms of the physical sensations but also in terms of the reversal of the usual dynamics.
I love it so much that we no longer have any penetrative sex apart from me being pegged.
My wife gets much more from pegging me than she does from being fuxxed herself.
Your one lucky bastard!!
It is important to go gently for a successful and enjoyable pegging experience. I you haven’t had something up your ass yet I would recommend to get a small buttplug and a good quality lube, if you don’t want a plug you can off course use your fingers or even better let your wife finger you, to get used to the feeling of having something up your ass. But even more important is to use lots of lube and to go slow, because otherwise you will clench up and it won’t be enjoyable.
I get pegged really often by my wife and absolutely love it.
Our first experience years ago was a bit awkward but great fun.
But now she is really talented in going me and I love being on the receiving end.
I you go slow use enough lube, you will both love it. I would recommend definitely give it a try and I am sure you definitely wished you tried pegging sooner
Definitely give it a chance, adds an amazing dynamic! Start slow and small work your way up. Lots of communication and lube. After some positive experiences you’ll be begging for it! A tapered dildo is great for first time. Good luck!
Thank you to everyone who has replied so far
Obviously it’s a lot to think about and talk about, as I said I have never even spoke to my wife about anal sex with her taken it. So for her to mention it after she has watched it on porn hub is a surprise.
Can anyone recommend a good starting point in sense of toy/dildo harness and lube?
Firstly, if it reignites your wife’s passion, then that’s a good thing, right?
Secondly, think of how many years you’ve been the penetrating partner in your marriage. Isn’t it only fair to give her the same opportunity?
Thirdly, it can be an extremely intimate act and shows your trust in her, as well as your vulnerability to her, which is a very powerful act of devotion.
Finally, it can be mind-blowing and make you feel closer to your wife than you ever thought possible.
Just follow the safety advice around the forum and you’ll never regret your choice to indulge in this play.
Oh, and lucky you, because there are a lot of guys here who don’t have wives/gfs as open minded as yours. Enjoy!
Guess firstly you’d need to think is it something you would want to try out, and then if so start off very simple with say a small toy or fingers to just experiment a little to see how the sensations feel and if it catches your interests
I once read an informative article from a male porn star who talked about anal sex and all sorts but one part stayed with me which was when he spoke about how not everyone is build for it which is why you’ll get some people who rave about how orgasmically amazing it is while others say it felt really uncomfortable and didn’t feel any pleasure at all…
So all you can do is just give it a testing if it’s something you’d like to try and see how it goes
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As a woman I love pegging as it’s good to do role reversal and it’s fun for both him and her
As others say - start small and work up to proper penis shape dildos (attached to a harness) with loads of lube
It also is fun for her - I find it such a massive turn on and after pegging my husband it’s very often the start of other play with sex - so if she has been a bit cold - this could be the start of a whole lot of good sex
Believe me, from personal experience, its the best stimulation you’ll ever have!!
Oh and no it doesn’t mean your gay like lots of straight men, or women think!! Just means your comfortable with your sexuality.
There’s lots of advice on this forum, all I’d say is start slow and steady with lots of lube, don’t be over ambitious with size, thats something you can work up to in time. And the more you do it the chances are the bigger you’ll want to go!!
Don’t be worried if you go limp during anal stimulation as thats perfectly normal as you ass will be getting all the sensations but also you’ll probably find you’ll dripple a lot of cum, also known as milking the prostate.
The more you do it the more she’ll love the control and being in charge and loving what she’s doing to you!! I know you didn’t suggest it but you’re very lucky to have an OH who’s open to trying different experiences.
Have fun!!
Wife and I have been pegging for well over a decade.
Advice, have some alone time, figure out what you like, how you like it and explore a little with different types of toys. Plugs, dildos, prostate massagers. Then you can transfer that back to the bedroom.
Thank you for all of your advice, it’s going to be something I need to really think about. My wife wanted to watch the videos she had watched on porn hub by Lady piper last night with her. I got to be honest it did turn us both on thinking of my wife dressed in her stockings and looking so obviously I like the thought BUT actually it happening is not that close. Talking and experimenting is the first step.
Start small, start slow, LOTS of lube. Then work yourself up to a level/size you are comfortable with.
First time, YOU control the movement (say, her lying down, you straddling her) so that there aren’t any eager thrusts that could hurt or injure. As you get more accustomed and confident, switch it up to something more exciting for you both.
And always remember, there’s no such thing as too much lube.
Your wife is obviously keen to try pegging. I would encourage her and discuss how you go forward. Remember that pegging whilst pleasurable for you will be an amazing role reversal and controlling experience for her.
Everyone has said good advice ie starting small using lots of lube but as a women I’d like to add that she will be in control so don’t take over or the dynamic will die. Let her experiment and by all means give her feedback but she is controlling the action.
From my experience it’s extremely sexy to do this and I’m sure she will be turned on.
I have been a lover of role reversal pegging for about twenty years . As others have said , go slow and plenty of lube . The following type toy is great for warm ups , the slender tip makes entry much easier . I still use one for warm ups before larger toys . https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/vibrating-butt-plugs/p/lovehoney-booty-shaker-10-function-remote-control-vibrating-butt-plug/a38117g70459.html
There are many threads on prepping to keep the whole experience less messy . I do have smoother dildos , but they do not have as good a feeling as a cock shaped dildo in my opinion . When my wife was active , she really liked being the dominate one . After many years of being the macho body builder , firefighter , logger , rescue diver etc. , it was really nice to be submissive . Good luck .
Yep, when my OH is wielding her cock 99% off the time she’s fully dressed in fetish leather and PVC gear, it really makes her look the dominant mistress!!
we have never even talked about anal sex before for either of us, is it as good as what you read? Obviously everyone has different opinions. What’s the best steps? Any advice and experiences would be appreciated. (Within forum rules)
. After some positive experiences you’ll be begging for it! A tapered dildo is great for first time. Good luck!
so obviously I like the thought BUT actually it happening is not that close. Talking and experimenting is the first step.