I am looking to spice up my sex life - can you help with suggestions
You have already had the thoughts and ideas.........!!!
TB
tallboy247 wrote:
You have already had the thoughts and ideas.........!!!
TB
yeah but I want other opinions!
I'm sure you will get them here...... do we know your foibles yet though to know what to build on!!!
TB
have you tried role play? bondage experimenting with toys, anal play, domination?
it might be easier if you say what you have tried
sweetlove666 wrote:
have you tried role play? bondage experimenting with toys, anal play, domination?
it might be easier if you say what you have tried
I have been tied up, tied my partner up but that didn't work as well- my husband likes to be the dominant one. I find being the dominant one difficult. I like to be used and abused External Media
I have tried anal but its not something I have done that often with my husband - more so with my last partner.
I have toys but still feel more comfortable using them on my own than in front of my husband. Is that wrong?
I want to get away from the same old sex all the time External Media
Ever used the toys on your OH????
TB
georga_73 wrote:
sweetlove666 wrote:
have you tried role play? bondage experimenting with toys, anal play, domination?
it might be easier if you say what you have tried
I have toys but still feel more comfortable using them on my own than in front of my husband. Is that wrong?
not at all, if its what your more comfortable with then go for it.
how about where you have sex, is it always in the same place. could you move it around a bit?
maybe massage or watching porn together, if your brave enough maybe taking your own sexy pics (if you dont do it allready lol)
TB- I bought him a vibrating cock ring which I think has been used once.
Swwetlove- I have taken pictures in the past and sent him some while he was at work but I haven't done that for ages,
We always have sex in the same place - I can't remember the last time it was anywhere different
Are you communicating with him !!!
Go for country walk sans knickers, find a gap in a dry stone wall and rest yourself on it, ass exposed!!!
TB
georga_73 wrote:
TB- I bought him a vibrating cock ring which I think has been used once.
Swwetlove- I have taken pictures in the past and sent him some while he was at work but I haven't done that for ages,
We always have sex in the same place - I can't remember the last time it was anywhere different External Media
try doing it again, or sending explicit texts, or try each writing down a few fantasies on different peices of paper then picking one at random and acting them out.
apparently a good game to try is monogomy, though i havent played it myself. a cheaper version could be strip poker i guess
If your happy with the sex and just want a change try a different time location or position. Just try something a bit different, if sex is always at bed time, get dressed up and wait on him coming in from work, sending a text to warn him is a good idea, or try surprising him in the shower.
I'm following sublime long legs idea and putting together a photobook online using pictures of me... thought it might be better than an occasional text photo.
but bottom line is you know yourself and your man better than we do, try something you've always wanted to do!
I'd probably go against what Sweetlove has suggested (no offence SL)... but by the sounds of it, if that hasn't worked particularly in the past, then maybe a different approach is required. Not very helpful as nothing comes to mine.
Maybe its a case of you both truely don't know what you are both into...if anything? Sounds like a tricky one to be honest.
write him a note and put it in his pocket....when he has left for work text him and tell him you have left him a note.....on the note write down exactly what you want him to do to you when he gets in ..i.e...dominate you into submission........the send him a sexy (or naughty, its up to you?) pic saying....cant wait til you get home!! he probably wont be able to either.....another idea is to have 2 boxes or something similar...one for you and one for him....write down your fantasies and put them in your box he does the same....pick a day for example saturday.....on saturday he will pull out one of your fantasies without you knowing and with out him telling you.... give him a time limit....say a week (bearing in mind some of your fantasies may take a while to get organised and vice versa) he then has one week to act out your fantasy.....you wont no what day he will act giving you the element of suprise and anticipation...take it in turns weekly, so you then have to act out on of his fantasies the week after and so on.....hope this helps!! [x]