Hey, me and my girlfriend have been going strong in our sex life, but we were wondering what we could use to pleasure each other seperatly or together...
Any ideas please?
You got use mutual toys on each other vibs, dildos for her. Guy toys for you.
Allaboutthebedroom wrote:
Hey, me and my girlfriend have been going strong in our sex life, but we were wondering what we could use to pleasure each other seperatly or together...
Any ideas please?
a double ended or a strap on with anal plug/dildo inside
lickmadick wrote:
a double ended or a strap on with anal plug/dildo inside
As i see it, im not to keen on things going up my bum! I guess it would be great for her, but i wouldn't enjoy it one bit!
Is there not things that we can both enjoy, or pleasure each other with that doesn't envolve things going up my bum? Its something i have tried before.. but not enjoyed!
how about some light bondage stuff then?
and a massager
I've always shined to that, in fact we both do! I especially like being dominate xD
What would be the best stuff to start with, and the best way to introduce this to our relationship?
Allaboutthebedroom wrote:
I've always shined to that, in fact we both do! I especially like being dominate xD
What would be the best stuff to start with, and the best way to introduce this to our relationship?
Was meant to say. I especially like being Dominated xD
Some light cuffs or wrist and ankle restraints so if you've got one you could tie just her wrist's together and slip them over the bedpost;or bondage tapeand tape her or yourself to the back of a chair facing backward's leg's akimbo so you could play with a massager /vibe/dildo and she/he couldn't move too much .Off course you can allways get the ankle to wrist cuffs and put yourselves in a fixed doggy position which leaves everthing open to inviting things to happen
lickmadick wrote:
Some light cuffs or wrist and ankle restraints so if you've got one you could tie just her wrist's together and slip them over the bedpost;or bondage tapeand tape her or yourself to the back of a chair facing backward's leg's akimbo so you could play with a massager /vibe/dildo and she/he couldn't move too much .Off course you can allways get the ankle to wrist cuffs and put yourselves in a fixed doggy position which leaves everthing open to inviting things to happen
Thanks, thats has helped alot xD
I hope it does allabout..enjoy yourselves life's to short xxlmd
lickmadick wrote:
Off course you can allways get the ankle to wrist cuffs and put yourselves in a fixed doggy position which leaves everthing open to inviting things to happen
For this i think the Fetish Fantasy Silk Scarf Restraints would be ideal xD unless you recommend something else?
S ome times the basic set is enough to see what you like we bout the bed set and found the cuffs on their own were good enough
Sorry my spelling is bad this time of day
lickmadick wrote:
Sorry my spelling is bad this time of day
Not to worry xD
With Bondage products i think alot of them can be threatening at first, i mean if you tried to suprise them with it, their reaction could be... well not very good, i would not say Bondage should be introduced at an early stage in a sexual relationship
well what float's your boat All ..but nothing wrong in trying can't knock it mate ..lmd
Try talking to her instead of just producing a kit to her, me and my partner were lying in bed one night about 2/3 months after we had started sleeping together and we were talking about things we'd like to try and we both brought up some bondage stuff so we went from there, but if he had just bought a kit iwithout mentioning it, it could have gone very wrong.
apologies if you have already spoken to her
VW x
I agree having a chat with her first, see what you both come up with.
If you are looking for a bondage set I can recommend http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16308&reviewpage=1
Going back to very basics...this may be a good place to look - lots of good suggestions there to get you started
As for dominance and bondage for beginners - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/bondage-bdsm/ here's the section on LH - some of it is quite likely not to your taste but there are loads of good starting places too.
For example:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19288 Lelo's elegant cuffs aren't too threatening though they are a little pricey!
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15716 a blindfold is a bedroom must! Great for sensual teasing. Use with a feather http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16079
and if you're into light spanking - a mini soft suede flogger can be great for slap *and* tickle. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15817
But definitely talk to your partner before purchasing - maybe you could shop together?
Oooh and for her - I definitely recommend a Bottle Rocket but be quick because they're being discontinued
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16611
or maybe the BSwish BCurious? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17863
Happy shopping.
Adx
Thanks :) Yeah i think it was a bad time of day to post to be honest, but with the family walking around late at night was my only option :)
Some very good advice, in which i have already taken some into action. :)