Advice on dildo size - present for girlfriend

As part of my fantasies about watching my girlfriend with a bigger man inside her, we have been looking into trying a dildo (she has never used one before).

We did order the Doc Johnson Bam Black Realistic Cock 10.5 Inch (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12107), but poorly estimated the size - all she did was laugh, and we sent it back without trying. That was seriously too big - she is quite a petite girl, poor thing.

I really want to try something bigger than me, but not too much! I did an honest measurement of myself which comes up as 7" length and 6" circumference. One problem I find is that anything over 6" circumference seems to have a huge 10 - 12 inch length. I think she would enjoy the extra girth (though not the Bam Realistic girth of 8.5!) but more than 8 or 9 inches would probably put her off.

Any recommendations? Any tips on whether this is a good idea to get my girlfriend into big boys?

Have you thought about an inflatable dildo? That way you can work up without having to make lots of purchases.

Try http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2963 as its not too frightening and has length and can build up to a good girth.

Alternatively try the slightly smaller http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2962

Good luck (& dont forget the lube)

the purple giant one is MASSIVE dont buy this !

hubby bought unfortunaty from shop as he was working away so we wanted it quick ! so the one he got was called michelles mammouth not sure which shop this is 8 inch circumferance hope this helps if you can ask on phone for one this thick not painful and doable

Well, you are a pretty big lad, so it's going to be hard to find something thicker than you but not much bigger in length in a realistic shape.

One thing to remember though is that length doesn't have to be used. if you get a ten inch toy in the right girth then there is nothing to say you can't only use five of them.