So i have always wanted to rim my parter but never had the confidance to do it anyone got any tips on how i could bring it up to my OH? thanks guys
Just ask.
With me and my OH, we ask what we want - if we're happy to do it, we do it - if not, well at least we know what our boundaries are.
Just say how you have always wanted to do it, would it be something they'd be happy to experience.
Communication is always key when it comes to sex.
Yeah communication is key, do you already do any other anal play?
Rimming is a very intimate experience and one that I can see some people having fair objections to if they are insecure about someone using their tongue there! I personally got lucky I guess, we were both drunk in a hotel room and I had hardly ever fantasised about it but went for it in the moment... We spoke about it the day after and it's something we are comfortable doing often now.