Hi just randomly thought id ask this...
Has anyone ever been influenced by porn or other rmeans in your sex life..or relationships?
Has it turn out for the good or bad?
It doesn't hurt to take/borrow ideas for you sex life wherever you see them, porn or elsewhere.
The most i've taken from porn was maybe a couple of positions - sometimes it's good - sometimes it's bad. As long as you're both up for it, what's the harm?
I've taken little bits here and there yeah (One that sticks out at me was a sexy as hell phrase I heard a Femdom use - I loved it) and like others have said, sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn't, but it's fun to experiment. x
I think I have been quite influenced by porn lately, mostly in just becoming more at ease and empowered. I am old enough and ugly enough (as my granny would say)to know that we don't all look like that (!) So I don't think that I am intimidated however it is good to see people using toys and experimenting. I have not and I M not inclined to watch it with my partner however... I have learned to never say never though!
For the bad. I didn't live up to his expectations. I'm not sure many women could have, if any, and he was too caught up in his disappointment with me to see what I did bring. By the time the root cause came to light, it was too late for the relationship to recover.
Porn does Nothing for me visually erotic books I take ideas and use them in my fantasies
Me either, but I was wondering how common it effected people Iif it was as common as media mags effects somepeoples body image....
What was best thing u learnt?
sassykitten;) wrote:
Me either, but I was wondering how common it effected people Iif it was as common as media mags effects somepeoples body image....
What was best thing u learnt?
If your asking me I take scenerios from books and use them in fantasies.porn I don't watch I have to fancy the bloke to get in the mood, then imagination runs riot.
Why not with your partner runnyhunny?
Yeah we'd borrow a few ideas from porn from time to time, sometimes the wife see's something and is like I want to try that, or I want you to do that.... for example the wife loved seeing squirting and then made it my mission to make her squirt.
Not sure. Honestly, I think it would be weird just sitting watching it side by side. ...or do people watch it when they are fucking? Ìll guess it is just a solo activity, in my head!ComeHereBabe wrote:
Why not with your partner runnyhunny?
Not sure. Honestly, I think it would be weird just sitting watching it side by side. ...or do people watch it when they are fucking? Ìll guess it is just a solo activity, in my head!ComeHereBabe wrote:
Why not with your partner runnyhunny?
We have watched a little together recently. I do look at porn but mostly amateur I like to whatch other people filming them sells and videos that woman have done for their partners. Weirdly thorough I don't like live cams of solo women. I guess I don't like to think it's fake. All so I do like the more female friendly art videos.
My wife knows I watch some I don't think it's a lot , but what's a lot and I don't masterbate to orgasm it is only as edging for play. My wife and watched as for play it was a turn on to get her to ask for something and me find some for her.
She's not seen much and it's more about doing it with me knowing I'm getting turned on. So she said.